Casual sex: The safest environment to meet like-minded men and women today

Casual sex: The safest environment to meet like-minded men and women today

Casual sex: A number of people just want no-strings-attached (NSA) sex.

Casual sex: The safest environment to meet and fuck today. We’re all after sex, right? What’s the best way to get laid without any of the trouble of wondering whether you’re in a committed relationship after the deed is done? Because let’s face it, the worst thing is going to bed with someone then unexpectedly finding out you are trapped in the middle of that big emotional ‘where are we’ conversation. If only there was a magical way to skip all the drama and just have NSA sex! What if this is possible? XXX Sex Contacts offers a service with this exact mission in mind? No registration or membership is required, you can just start chatting to people who are near you, or further afield, that are looking for a no strings attached relationship.

Casual sex: Looking online to meet like-minded people?

Believe it or not, where you live is probably bursting with people who, at this very second, are on their computers, searching for ways to have some adult fun without any of the problems normally associated with having a long-term partner. The trouble is – how to know where to find them without investing too much of your time and money? The answer is right here. Maybe it seems too good to be true, people getting in touch with each other, just to satisfy their sexual desire, but these days everyone is increasingly short of time. Folks today would do everything online if they could, so why not use the internet for your own benefit in an era of casual dating? At least with Xxx Sex Contacts you will spare yourself the nail-biting games people play in the real-world dating scene.

Casual sex: Meet like-minded people in the virtual online world and fuck them today.

It is comparatively new as a phenomenon, but it’s quickly rising in popularity. We are talking, of course, about the increased opportunity of finding your dream girl online at, where horny men and hot women exchange sexually explicit messages and photos as part of NSA sex. The days of vague Craigslist ads are over – now it’s all out in the open and everyone’s got a chance of pulling. Surely you’re better off than the days when you had to go to your local pub every night and spend more than a few quid in the hopes of meeting someone you’d want to have sex with. Then you’d have to wonder if they would agree to go back to your place. We’ve all been there – you wine and dine your partner just to be given the cold shoulder when you started making your advances. Well, rest assured that in this instance it is more than certain that you’ll hit it off and get the kind of sex you want.

Casual sex: UK women looking for casual sex contacts right now.

Casual sex contacts can be seen in two lights, as you’re reading this you probably see the side that we do, naughty contacts looking to fulfil their sexual desires! To a greater extent, more and more people are engaging in NSA sex, and why? Because we now live in a world which is moving much quicker and we don’t want to go on a long search in order to satisfy our sexual cravings. Those who use  are looking for fantasy role-play to fulfil their kinks and it’s pretty certain that some will be near to where you are right now! Search our profiles to find your perfect sex partner today. Although we cannot guarantee that you will always get on like a house on fire with everyone you choose to contact, we would be amazed if you can’t find exactly what you want here –  there’s lots of adult fun just a text away. Meet others in a virtual world of like-minded people looking for the same thing you are.

Casual sex: Adult personals – mature women in London and across the UK looking for adult fun.

Everybody has seen 40-year-old virgin, who wants to end up like that? It’s a case in point of how a lack of sex can diminish your confidence and lead to bizarre behavior. Sex should be enjoyed freely without any agro, and if that‘s what you want, our adult sexting introduction service is definitely for you. Sex with no strings is the only way to go; men and women use the service for that one reason only, to find people with the same approach to life. Sometimes, the idea of making sex contacts is a nerve-wracking though, but you have nothing to worry about here. We are here to help you on your journey of contacting lots of interesting and exciting people who to be part of your sexual fantasies. Search the profiles now and get chatting today!

Casual sex: How to contact naughty women and get what you want.

Let’s face it, most people only have one thing on their mind, your goal is to find and contact women who are on the same wavelength as you. Take a look at our adult personals, all the women behind our sex profiles are here for NSA adult fun (casual sex), but if you don’t click and make contact nothing will happen. Message a couple of women and try and get a feel for what they are into, but take things easy and don’t mention sex straight away, the best thing is to ease it in. If you jump in with both feet from the outset by asking (pressuring) them to meet, you are likely to get blocked. You need to get to know each other to get the best out of this service – you may be looking for a one-off session or wanting something more regular and decide to stay in contact –  either way, we recommend building sex contacts as it’s likely to benefit your sex life IRL.

Casual sex: Get instant sex contacts.

Historically, getting shag contacts took time, effort, and a lot of night-time cruising. Today, you can get sex contacts instantly online through XXX Sex Contacts. With no commitments or fuss, you can contact women near you or further afield who want something casual without having to register or hand over any personal information about yourself. Try dirty chat, fantasy role-plays, swap intimate pictures and just let your imagination run wild – whatever it is you enjoy, you can find it here!

Casual sex: Women here expect no commitments.

Women who use XXX Sex Contacts only want the casual kind of sex that comes with no commitments. This is a massive plus for men who don’t want anything serious. If some adult fun without any relationship commitment is what you’re after, then you’ll love it here. The women behind our sex profiles are only interested in one-on-one adult fun, making contact with like-minded gentlemen, and finding secret virtual fuck buddies. You won’t find any lovey-dovey bullshit here! And no matter where you are in the UK, you’re bound to find women interested in the same kind of sex you are; it’s only natural. Search our profiles and send a free intro message, using our secure web-to-mobile feature, today! No sign-up required.

Casual sex: Find women near you or further afield.

Another enormous plus of XXX Sex Contacts is the ability to narrow down your search by region: meaning you can filter your searches to only target women who may live near you – the region search is all part of the virtual fantasy experience, as many men seem to prefer to exchange messages with women they can believe are local to them – obviously the location aspect is part of the fantasy as no one would realistically expect a woman to tell men they do not know where they live.  Pretty obvious really.

You’ll never be this efficient at contacting real women even if you had the power to search for horny women in every single pub or nightclub in your town or city in one night!  With thousands of profiles to choose from, you’re certain to find someone who fits your sexual preferences – no matter what your kink or fetish might be!

Remember, it is free to view adult personals (sex profiles/ads) and send a private intro message to the woman you like the sound of – opting-in so that you can exchange private messages is only one step away!

Casual sex: Save time, search XXX Sex Contacts adult personals.

With all and sundry using adult websites hoping to get a quick shag, this has now become the norm for many; it seems that every person has a personal profile on at least one dating site or app and that all you have to do is join one of them to get a quick fuck.

Conventional dating requires time, energy, and money – things many of us don’t have in abundance. Finding your ideal sex-partner online isn’t as complicated as it might at first appear, and that’s why it’s such a massive success. It cuts out all the unnecessary and drawn out formalities and cuts to the chase. Sound appealing? Try it, we think you’ll be surprised at just how quick and easy it is to get what you want here.

Casual sex: Find women you would love to get it on with.

Are you interested in casual encounters online and want to be spoilt for choice? XXX Sex Contacts is precisely what you need! Look through our adult personals – each has a real, UK verified, 18+ woman behind it; it’s the easiest and safest way to explore and share your sexual desires without making a serious commitment. A simple ‘hi’ message will be enough to get things started!

Casual sex: Reinvent your sex life with XXX Sex Contacts.

Shopping for real sex contacts? You’re in the right place! Consider this your one-stop shop for all your sex fantasies and raunchy role-play needs. It’s no secret that online is the best way to discreetly find real sex contacts, but with so many options available on the internet, it can be hard to sift the good from the bad, the real from the fake, and the genuine from the scams. Let us spare you the trouble by providing you with a platform to easily find like-minded sexy women interested in no strings attached fun. Make contact today, and see for yourself just how quick and easy it is!




261 thoughts on “Casual sex: The safest environment to meet like-minded men and women today

  1. Having casual sex with guys

    I don’t feel anything after casual sex. It is just during it that there is something. I live in the moment. I don’t get carried away by emotions. I don’t do it under the influence of drugs or alcohol, and never feel guilty. If I want to, I’ll do it. It starts with casual talks in the bar about not so casual topics. 🙂

  2. I have never had casual sex. Never even thought of it. Being raised in a society where having sex or even dating before marriage is frowned upon—to figure out your own thoughts becomes a challenge. You just get used to living according to societal standards. Being everything a lady needs to be in today’s world, I don’t consider ‘sex’ as a measure to define modernity/empowerment/independence at all.

  3. Casual sex

    I did it once, and it made me feel like shit. I used to like this guy, even though I’d date other men he would be in the back of my mind and I’d compare everyone with him. Obviously, I was very open to having sex with him and hoping it would turn into something more. It didn’t. He just wanted to orgasm and didn’t give a flying fuck about my pleasure. I still remember walking out of his apartment with tears in my eyes thinking—WTF am I doing? Am I a mistress? It was the worst feeling ever and I would never do it again.

  4. I’ve just found after looking online to contact real women and I have to say that I love everything about what this site from what it offers to how it works. Great job.

  5. Re: safe sex = virtual sex

    Cyber sex is safe in that you won’t get any STI’s.
    You don’t have to actually meet the person.
    You won’t get raped or murdered 😀 :p

  6. Dating hookup and met sites for sex

    Online sites offering casual sex are all scams. If you are looking for a soul mate, marriage and kids then fair enough, but if you’re wanting to meet for casual sex for one night only forget it. Better off going out and meeting a girl at a club or pub, taking her back to your and shagging her.

  7. Hi, I’m Molly, 44

    I am a hot and horny MILF and would totally describe myself (if pushed lol) as a nymphomaniac as everything (well almost everything) is always on offer. Basically, there’s not much I can honestly say I haven’t done – but I love to keep pushing my boundaries.

    Please get in touch. Molly xxx

  8. Part of the excitement of having sex with someone you don’t know that well is the riskiness of it all, don’t you think?

  9. Re: safe sex environment

    You can’t catch anything from sexting, except a black eye or a saucepan around the head if your wife finds out. Always delete telltale messages and browsing history unless you have a deathwish lol

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  11. All physical sex of the casual sex variety carries risks – and depending on your circumstances and who you have sex with (and who finds out) the risks change… but then again the risk factor is one of the pulls 🙂

  12. I’m a 33, one year divorced, single mum. It has been over a year since had sex. I’m feeling so horny most of the time, but haven’t managed to meet another partner yet, so I’m considering casual sex. Is there anyone else that feels the same?


  13. Weird question, I know. Here’s the problem: I’m feeling quite horny and most guys wouldn’t expect me to enjoy casual sex so without asking them for it directly I don’t know what to do. I know lots of guys who would be into this kind of thing but I don’t want it to be awkward asking or hinting at it. Would showy Instagram pictures be a sign or simply flirty? Or even would guys know that I’m up for it by hearing I’ve done it with someone else? Any suggestions would help – I’m 23 btw.

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  16. As guided by others! Lol

    Yes, Holly Willoughby is getting better with age! Lol

    Also, think Jenna Louise Colman is lush and Coleen Rooney, Wayne well above his level. Met Coleen and honest so much fitter than you think lol

  17. Good shout on Selena Gomez!! Used to think a bit innocent looking but now she’s fit as and would do allsorts!? x

  18. My particular favourites just now are Hillary Duff and Selena Gomez, Hillary Duff posts stuff daily on Instagram and grabs my attention every time.

  19. Well, I have to admit to finding the journalist Susie Boniface an incredible turn on. She turns ‘Press Preview’ on Sky News from a potentially boring event into something of a wankfest! No man needs the Adult Channel when Susie’s reviewing The Daily Telegraph!

  20. I’m an old Dom! It would be a bit wrong to fantasise about anyone from this decade! lol

    However, Helen Flanagan from Corrie is a very attractive young lady 🙂

  21. Celebrities good enough to fuck. Has anyone mentioned Catherine Tyldesley from Coronation Street yet?

  22. Celebrity sex

    Kate Garaway
    Susannah Reid
    Jenny Ryan (from the chase)
    Paige from WWE after the video leak

  23. I would fuck;
    1) Avril Lavigne
    2) Katy Perry
    3) Kate Beckinsale
    4) Taylor Swift (don’t know why)

    …any day

  24. Susannah Reid has gotta be in there from the Breakfast TV category. And the opposing genre, night time tv… Clare Richards (studio66 or Babestation etc)

  25. Celebs to fuck.

    Well here is my top five, three of which will only make sense if you’re over forty years of age!

    1. Jodie Whitaker, my undisputed Number One celebrity fuckfest.
    2. Susannah Hoffs, lead singer of The Bangles who is absolutely screaming for it.
    3. Wincey Willis, Breakfast tv weather girl in the 1980s who was the very willing subject of many a teenage wank.
    4. Dido; enough said!
    5. The woman who ‘upskirted’ her teacher in the film ‘Babyface’. See point 3 on Wincey Willis for more information.

    Bonus Wank; any female, I repeat ANY female in the film Swedish Erotica. My teenage years just wouldn’t have been the same without this wonderful example of filmmaking. How the director never won an Oscar beggars belief to this day!

  26. Oldish question but if you could have sex with any female well known, Who would you want? xx

    Mine- Holly Willoughby, Kym Marsh, and Alex Jones xx Sorry! Or Coleen Rooney, naked on my bed!! Xx

  27. If you want to be watched in the ‘flesh’ rather than on cam then a swingers club is a good bet. If you are in the London area I can suggest some. Do you want to be watched through one-way glass, a glassless window/glory hole or with nothing between you and the spectators? Do you want a select few people watching you in a closed space, or to put on a show for all-comers? Men, women, couples?

  28. As a veteran exhibitionist, I have to say that I too love being watched! It’s how we found ourselves getting into swinging in a way… Even now, I get quite turned on when I know someone is looking & commenting on my more intimate photos!

    Emma (28)

  29. Hi – I agree. But if you want to keep things completely anonymous – check your camera angles, etc. I love playing on cam, but I always make sure even the background is completely neutral. Not too keen on someone I know saying “hang on… I know that room!”

    Unlikely, I know – but I like having peace of mind.

  30. Watched doing what in particular? An easy and quick option is probably to try going on webcam to start with. You’ll know you are being watched by strangers who like what they see. I love wanking on cam when I can it’s very arousing to me

  31. I am listening to my playlist so the latest 5 songs are:

    Busted – She Wants To Be Me [Don’t judge me]
    Green Day – Time of Your Life
    Alannis Morrisette – You Oughta Know
    Eyes Set To Kill – Come Home (acoustic version)
    Il Divo – Aleluya

    So yeah… Before that, I had Blink182, Wheetus, MCR. So I’m pretty eclectic lol

  32. In The Moonlight
    In The Moonlight’s Pale Embrace
    We Come To Know The Space Between Us
    The Space Between Us

    Dreamlight Comes In Waves
    (The Waves Within Us)
    To Know The Space Within Us
    The Space Within Us

    In Blood Red Skies
    Mind Takes Flight (The Sky Is Falling)
    Oceans Rise
    Worlds Collide
    To Know The Space Between Us
    The Space Between Us

    In A Dream So High
    Feel So Alive
    The World Is Like A Jewel In Your Eyes
    One Life
    Feel It

    In The Moonlight
    The Moonlight’s Pale Embrace
    (Embrace The Feeling)
    There Is No Space Between Us
    No Space Between Us

    In Blood Red Skies
    Tears Run Dry (The Sky Is Falling)
    There Is No Space Between Us

  33. I’m listening to Evanescence atm. Before that was Alannis Morrisette and before that was Taylor Swift. LOL I like quite a lot of stuff 🙂

  34. Sexy Little Thing

    Chickenfoot which is Sammy Hagar, Joe Satriani, Michael Anthony (Van Halen) and Chad Smith (Red Hot Chili Peppers)

  35. Good band with David Grohl from, of course, Foo Fighters and Nirvana.

    Josh Bon Homme from Queens of the Stone Age.

    John Paul Jones from, of course, Led Zeppelin

  36. I love Squeeze. Love Rolling Stones too (not listening to anything at present but will keep ya posted!) Wink

  37. Woohoo Sex Pistols. I love PiL too – they have a gig coming up soonish, but the tickets are way expensive.

    I’ve also been listening to some old faves like the Sisters of Mercy this week.

  38. I am a Pink Floyd fanatic! Moody Blues, Depeche Mode, The Cure, The Smiths, David Sylvian, Tears for Fears, Talk Talk.

    LOVE Heaven 17. Haven’t heard ‘Love and Pride’ in quite a while, I do like King.

    I steer towards Prog, classic rock and 80’s alternative.

  39. I’m a bit of an old fogey!

    Beardy stuff like Pink Floyd & Nick Drake I love. Oh and 80’s tunes! Human League, Heaven 17, King, Madness, The Beat lol

    What are you into?

    I do quite fancy Jessie J 🙂

  40. Yes, I do remember my first porn movies!

    My first soft porn was the old favourite ‘Babyface’ which was quite entertaining aside from the porn action.

    ‘Swedish Erotica’ was my first taste of hardcore porn and, of course, that was just pure full-on sex from start to finish, with very little attempt at any form of storyline.

    These two were soon followed by ‘SS Experiment Camp’, another very naughty film!

  41. Watched it once and never again! The girl who was being thrown around was my doppelganger!!! Scared the shit out of me hahaha now I prefer to make my own xx

  42. Mine was a compilation porn video with a lot of girls peeing and sucking each other with a well-hung bloke fucking them. Think it was one of the piss and mix series

  43. Always wanted to try making my own porn film but never had a partner who was keen. Any suggestions on how to take this forward?

  44. I think it was Taboo 18 or something like that. I will google it now as you just reminded me of that movie…

  45. Debby Does Dallas. That dates me, and it’s probably a bit tame now considering what you can get on the internet!

  46. I was probably older than most, and was also into BDSM at the start and watched some to get an idea of what I was getting myself into. Mine was of a redhead being tied up and teased senseless.

  47. First porn film I saw was when I went to my mate’s house during lunch break in sixth form.

    It was a 3some MFF, the bloke had 1 girl on his face while the other was shagging him. Then the girl that was shagging lay next to him, he was sucking her tits as the other one gave him a blowjob until he came. They then went into the bath and he started peeing on the girl, which made him cum.

    He then returned to the bed and started shagging the other girl before blowing a load on her tits.

    Before this the best “porn” I’d watched was Baywatch lol

  48. Do you remember what the first porn film you watched was called? And have you tried searching the internet to watch it again?

    My first was a film called Inside Marylin, a porn film about Marylin Monroe. I`ve since watched it again and get the same feeling. So hot!

  49. You make that sound so exhilarating and I’m sure it must feel totally liberating too. I’ve never had the courage (if that’s the right word) to try it and I can’t see me starting now! Fair play to those who indulge in this erotic activity, especially my friends on here!

  50. Who loves to be naked around the house, garden or just anywhere when the weather is hot and horny?

    I enjoy being naked with either sex for any reason at all! 😉

  51. What will your next wank be about?

    This is an interesting topic and I like the phrase ‘wank planning’. I will often plan ahead to ‘when’ I’m going to wank – rather than ‘what’ I’m going to wank about. That said, I have recently resurrected a conversation with Fern from Durham who is stunning.

    I know in advance that Fern is about to feature in my thoughts!

    She has sexy photographs that also assist the process.

  52. Have you ever fancied a teacher?

    First of all, I would like to apologise if this is the wrong place for this post. However, since fancying a teacher can be considered a fantasy, I have decided to post it here.

    I will be the first to admit here that I fancied a teacher when I was in secondary school, although she wasn’t a teacher at the school; she was merely a substitute. It was impossible not to like her (not like her as in love; like as in a friendly way) because she was so down-to-earth and never shouted at anyone. Personality aside, though, she was cute.

    The awkward thing is that I think she knew I liked her because she used to say hi to me whenever she saw me. She also didn’t tell me to get out the classroom when I walked into the one she was in (it was lunchtime, so she should have told me to leave, but she never) as I was aimlessly walking around the school premises. Don’t ask me why I decided to enter a classroom with only her in it because I don’t know.

    However, this is where I make it even more awkward. On her last day, I asked her if I could take a photo of her because I really did like her. Sadly, she wouldn’t allow me.

    Here I am now, around ten years later, cringing and feeling embarrassed about what I asked her. It was worth a shot, though, right?

  53. I think my response will be very unconventional. I love boobs and arses but the ultimate goal of my desire is pussy. My favourite things involve seeing, touching, licking and fucking a deliciously wet fanny. Even though nudity is becoming more common on TV you still very rarely see a woman spread her legs in films and never in a TV show. There’s still a lot of mystery about what’s between a woman’s legs (outside of porn anyway).

    For instance, I’m a big fan/admirer of Louise and imagine every day that she is opening her legs for me and I get an eye full. By now you can guess that my favourite body part is a lady’s vagina that is moist and spread wide open.

  54. I don’t think I can pick between Anita’s sexy ass or her amazing tits. It’s the look she gives when she is horny and I have absolutely no chance of escape. I imagine Anita as a lioness on the hunt and I am her prey.

  55. Which body part turns you on the most? I love Tracy’s huge tits! Cant stop thinking about them! Fantasise about caressing them, sucking and biting on her nipples, and would like to slap them!

    What’s your most attractive body part?

  56. Re: Sex dating, casual hookups and finding new Sex friends online. There’s always a thrill to meeting horny women for one night stands. Naughty partners you meet can help to heat up your sex life and that’s one of the biggest attractions to actively searching out new casual sex encounters. Some online sex dating sites have an array of features offering online chat rooms, video chat rooms, forums and blogs (and many others facilities), so you are sure to turn your online chatting into a real-time horny experience filled with impulsive orgasmic satisfaction.

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  57. Hi, I’m a 27-year-old bisexual man.

    To answer your question, I personally don’t think sperm has particular health benefits – it’s just a very small amount of protein at the end of the day. But the fun factor can’t be denied.

  58. Hi, I’m new here and wanted to introduce myself. I have recently started to swallow my own ejaculate when I masturbate, and I was wondering if any other males did the same. I don’t do it because it turns me on, I do it for its supposed health benefits. I cannot say its something I enjoy, although I am getting used to it a little more now. I would love to hear from any of you who do the same and would like to hear if you think the health claims are true. Bye the way, just in case you are wondering, it’s not cock-to-mouth, I squirt into my hand and then take it into my mouth.

  59. Men and women are different and want different things. Men want and need sex, women are looking for sugar daddies. If a man is unattractive, unemployed and has a lousy sense of humour it’s game over, unless he’s prepared to settle for some ugly fat smelly bitch.

  60. Go out and talk to people. Seriously, online is a no-no. You can’t build comfort or attraction if you can’t see them and every guy online posts the same bull… ‘I’m a 40-year-old guy looking for fun times. I’m good looking, well hung, and very outgoing etc’.

    Hot girls get messaged all the time with the same bullshit. If you’re good looking and outgoing, why would you need to go online to meet women? Go out and meet people, talk to them. Even for a casual sex partner, you need to have some personality/confidence. Yes looks matter, but you need the confidence to back it up. Forget online. You’re more likely to get blown off/rejected online.

  61. Hello everyone,

    Thought I would post a comment to see what comes back… I’m currently looking on the net for a bed buddy (female only). I got shot down the other day for mentioning Gumtree, but all these chat sites etc do my head in. Anyway, who else does this sort of thing? I mean there must be quite a lot of people who want some no strings fun but are too shy/aren’t good at approaching people face to face. I don’t really drink, either.

    Has anyone else tried it and what’s the best way to go about it would you say?

  62. It was one of those nights in the summer last year, out having a drink with friends, you see someone really really attractive and that person sees you too. The dancing on in the club becomes almost way too inappropriate for being something to do with people around. The night comes to an end and we ended up in my bed with such sexual tension in the room that we both were about to explode. One thing led to the next and we had sex. For a one night stand, it was pretty awesome actually.

  63. No one night stands, only friends with benefits so far, I can’t completely trust strangers to be respectful to my body unless I know them to some level. I like the free food (I return the favor as well) and having a bed to sleep in if it’s too late to walk back home alone. Not that ONS’s can’t provide those either, but I get the feeling it’s pretty common.

  64. When I was younger back in the day (lol) I had a few one-night stands. They began as text chats and developed from there, it was an awesome fuck fest. These girls never left me disappointed and made me feel like a god in the bedroom.

    Any interesting one night stand stories?

    Please share

  65. XXX Sex Contacts is my favourite chat site. I don’t do phonesex and I’m not looking to meet women for sex in real life. I’m a happy, but sexually frustrated (long story) married man with two kids.

  66. Casual sex of any kind comes with risks, however, you choose to define casual sex and no matter how or where it takes place. There is no such thing as 100% risk-free casual sex. Just so we are all clear on that. Even this service can get you in deep shit if your partner finds out you are chatting with women here in a sexual way. Your wife, girlfriend or partner will see this as cheating so cover your tracks well. Obviously, sexting will not give you a nasty STD so in that regard it is 100% safe.

  67. I’m not gay or bisexual either and, sadly, have never had a dildo up my arse before. I have seen it a few times and it is a massive turn on for me and would like to experience it.

    Who knows I might not like it but I’ll never know unless I try it.


  68. Very interesting exchange of ideas. Perhaps because I’m neither gay nor bi I never had the slightest desire to take a cock or dildo up the arse. What does it feel like and how does that induce any form of sexual arousal… just curious not at all judgmental.

  69. That does sound quite lovely. I would love for Sophie to do that to me as well. At the minute though I really feel like I want to be dominated. If that is by Sophie then even better.

    XXX Sex Contacts Member (9 months)

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  74. What are you craving for/lusting for/desiring for right now? Just a direct question (since we’re all naughty, sexy people here lol)

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    XXX Sex Contacts Member (2 years)

  75. Nola: Good looking. Amazing body, perfectly tanned and smooth flawless skin, slim, great legs, tits and a beautiful ass. Wore the right amount of makeup without overdoing it and some nice lingerie without stockings and some seriously sexy black stilettos (the memory of the heels Over my shoulders will stay with me forever).

  76. When I was younger I was really hurt when I found out a gf of mine had fucked 14 guys before me. We are talking at 21-years-old at the time.

    Eventually, though I realised a couple of things:

    1. She knew what other guys have, and choose to stay with me (for three years) – nice security boost.
    2. No one I met before or after her could fuck like her, she knew what she was doing!

  77. I want to watch a partner masturbate while they watch me, never actually being allowed to touch each other, but just watch each other and touch ourselves. There is something so tempting and it would be so a turn on to watch each other cum

  78. I’ve always wanted to use a strap-on. I just want to know what that power feels like to penetrate someone and have that control. My boyfriend would never, ever be down for that, but I think it would almost be a turn on to have him feeling so vulnerable

  79. Weird, but I’ve always wanted to urinate on a sex partner. I’ve never done it or known of anyone to do it but it’s something that’s always lingered in my mind. Maybe in the shower or something, but I know it would freak a girl out so I’ll probably never ask.

  80. I know what I’m worth and if my guy strays every now and again, I wouldn’t take it personally. I won’t get offended if he parties too much and decided to have sex with a stranger. After all, he chose to commit to me and I’m already confident enough in myself. If his fling continues but doesn’t harm our relationship, I’m willing to let him have it. Cheating can be an empowering experience.

  81. The problem with cheating is that people confuse sex with feelings. I can be madly in love with someone but have sex with another person. That doesn’t make me feel less passionately about the one I love. We should start accepting sex for what it is—a physical need. Our feelings are a level above sex, so cheating shouldn’t have an effect.


  82. Sure, I like sex but I’m often too focused on other things like work and bettering myself. It’s not cool to deny someone’s natural needs, so if he wants to get laid, cheating is an option. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, so when I’m not in the mood, my guy doesn’t have to be deprived. He can go out and find it elsewhere. I understand that it’s only physical.

  83. Let’s be real, my partner and I may be a great match, but I’ll never fulfill 100% of his needs. Yes, I’m smart, good-looking and driven, but I lack coquettishness, I criticise too much and I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut. Although he may love me for all of these things at first, he’ll eventually want a more humble, quiet girl. I can’t give him that and I understand if cheating lets him have it. As long as he comes back to me at the end of the day, we can continue our relationship. I’d rather him do that than have to change who I am.

    Deana (38) Barrow-in-Furness

  84. If you want to burst into tears whenever you see a cute couple in matching sweaters walking through the park, then you shouldn’t have casual sex. If you really want a relationship, you should try to find a man who is on the same page. Don’t settle for sex when you want a whole lot more.

  85. If sex will make you smile, sleep with all the men that you can manage to seduce. But if you’re only using sex as a meaningless tool to fill a void that your ex-left, you should try to find another outlet for your pain.

    Jordan, 35, Runcorn

  86. Hey lady: Even though we’re living in the modern world, some people will still judge a woman for sleeping around. If being called promiscuous actually bothers you, then you should either refrain from having casual sex or at least keep your conquests quiet.

  87. When you’re in a relationship, your boyfriend won’t have a problem making certain nights “all about you.” However, when you’re having a one-night stand, you can’t be greedy. You need to give as much as you take.

  88. Even if you never end up developing feelings for your partner, he might be the one to fall for you. If he does, you have to be strong enough to tell him that your arrangement is over. Don’t keep having casual sex with him, and definitely don’t let him guilt you into dating him.

  89. If you have casual sex with a guy, and then see him flirting with another girl at a party a few days later, you can’t throw a drink in his face. You two aren’t in a relationship, which means he’s free to do as he pleases. If you’re so jealous that you can’t take the thought of seeing him with another woman, then you shouldn’t have casual sex with him.

  90. When you have a responsible boyfriend, he’ll always carry condoms with him. If you’re having impromptu sex with a stranger, he might not be as careful. That means it’s up to you to pack condoms in your bag and to take your birth control pill in a timely manner.

  91. If you believe intercourse is a beautiful experience that should only be shared between two people who are madly in love, casual sex isn’t up your alley. One-night stands mean sleeping with a stranger and then never calling them again, so you should hold out for an actual relationship if sex is that important to you.

    Why are here?

  92. You can have really great sex with someone you don’t necessarily love — I think this is one of the biggest takeaways for me. If you practice safer sex, feel comfortable with yourself and the person you’re with, you can have really great sex without the “L” word entering into the equation. There’s nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality on your own terms!

    A question for both girls and boys…
    What’s something you wish you’d known about casual sex?

    Michelle (28) Liverpool

  93. People will use ridiculous excuses to get out of using condoms — don’t believe them. I thought this would improve once I got out of my 20s, however now that I’m having sex in my 30s I feel like it’s only become worse. A lot of the guys I meet have either come out of long-term relationships or marriages and have been “spoiled” in the sense that they haven’t had to use condoms for years on end. Luckily, condoms have made great technological strides in the past few years as far as fit, comfort, and pleasure. Lacking knowledge about condoms is one thing. However, choosing to remain ignorant about the realities of STDs is just stupid.

    I recently had a 35-year-old man tell me “condoms just feel impersonal” (and getting/spreading an STD is way more personal?!) Recently, I also heard another 30-something guy say that his method for protecting himself from STDs is to “pull out” (I don’t think it works that way fella). Lastly, I recently met a man in his 40s that argued that he shouldn’t have to wear a condom because I should “just trust him.” Clearly, these people are morons.

    Until proven otherwise, assume everyone is as clueless as the people I mentioned above and take your health into your own hands. Always use a condom and practice the safer sex.

    Good advice. Melanie (36) Newcastle

  94. It’s Ok to have feelings. We live in a society where we’re often hyper-exposed to sexuality. If we’re not being taught that sex is shameful, we’re being encouraged to have as much of it as possible. It can get pretty confusing. When I was in my early 20’s, I thought that in order to be empowered as a woman I needed to “have sex like a man” — which means having as much as sex as possible with zero feelings attached. This also isn’t realistic.

    Both men and women can get attached to the people they sleep with — I still do sometimes. It’s OK to develop feelings… or not develop feelings. There is no one way to feel about the people you get naked with. However, keep in mind, if you find yourself continually developing feelings for your casual hook-ups and getting hurt in the process, you may want to re-examine whether casual sex is really for you.

    Just adding my two penneth… Fern (28) Darlington

  95. Great post Rox. I would add… You might develop feelings for the person you’re sleeping with or hooking up with. This is a reality that I was completely unprepared for. When I was 19, I started seeing a guy who was quite a bit older than me. The first time we slept together, he came over, we had sex and then he went home five minutes later. Nothing could have prepared me for the pit in my stomach that I felt after my first casual sex experience. Although I tried to brush it off as “no big deal,” the truth was I got attached to people after I slept with them. When those feelings weren’t reciprocated it hurt.

    Tessie (27) Leicester

  96. Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Casual Sex.

    When I think back to sex education classes in school, I mostly remember a lot of awkward diagrams and out of date educational videos from the 1970s. To say it left a lot to be desired, is the understatement of the century. Although we covered the basics of the “birds and the bees” when it came to casual sex and hooking up the general message was “Don’t do it!”

    Although I hope sex ed classes have changed a lot since I was a teen in the mid-90s, I’m not holding my breath. Most of what I know about casual sex (and sex in general) I’ve learned through personal experience.

    From learning how to be comfortable in my own skin to deal with those messy things called “feelings,” but I really wish someone had told me about casual sex.

    Like: Casual sex happens and there’s nothing shameful or wrong about it. When I think back to my sex ed classes, the message was always very clear: “Don’t have sex, but if you are going to do it, make sure you love the person and are in a relationship.” While that’s decent advice, it’s not necessarily realistic. Sex in a relationship is great, but life doesn’t always work out that way. Maybe you haven’t found “the one” or maybe you’re not looking. In the meantime, as long as you’re playing safe and not hurting anyone, there’s nothing shameful or wrong about having sex because you enjoy it.

    Rox (38) Sutton Coldfield

  97. When women are most likely to be into casual sex.

    Men are more interested and likely to engage in casual sex than women, right? From film, to music, to magazines– it’s one of those things everyone (seemingly) “knows” about the respective sexes that is pervasive in popular culture. Visit your local bookstore’s self-help section and you’re likely to a see volumes (for example, the “Mars and Venus” series) dedicated to understanding how such sex differences should be understood if we’re to experience relational and sexual bliss.

    New research, however, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology shows that when great pleasure is expected, women are just as likely as men to say “YES” to casual sex. The innovative set of studies carried out by Dr. Terri Conley at the University of Michigan support predictions consistent with Pleasure Theory.

    This perspective argues that sexual reproduction is a by-product of sexual pleasure, rather than vice-versa. We’ve evolved to seek pleasurable experiences; if enough people are having pleasure through sex, then the species will reproduce as a consequence. And herein lies perhaps the most pertinent sex difference of all-– women generally have a more difficult time achieving sexual pleasure from a casual encounter than men. For example, recent work has shown that women orgasm only 35% as often as men do in first-time sexual encounters.

    Conley’s work suggests that when the conditions are right, women are more similar to men in how they respond to an offer for casual sex than previously has been thought. The greatest contribution to explaining if a woman will accept an offer for casual sex is her perception of how sexually pleasurable the encounter will be. Because men orgasm more easily, they tend to be less picky about whom the casual sex is with. For women, however, the sexual prowess of the person offering the sex is highly relevant. If she doesn’t expect to be satisfied, she’d be less likely to have casual sex.

    We’ve often believed that some young women’s preference for slightly older men could have to do with status and resources on offer. Perhaps that’s true. But perhaps the likelihood of greater pleasure from an experienced lover also plays a role. They always say it takes about 10,000 hours of practice, after all, to become an expert at something!

    Source: When women are most likely to be into casual sex

  98. I lost my virginity at 18 and went through a promiscuous phase. I’m now 35 and haven’t had sex in 4 years even though I’m told I’m attractive and I have a strong sex drive (masturbate daily). I want a fuckbuddy or boyfriend, but the last time I had sex I got really self-conscious about my performance… to the point where it wasn’t even fun.

  99. Benefits of casual sex… Yes, but not exclusively. It can be fun at the right time and with the right person. Erm, such as gorgeous hottie Kelly (46) from Ilkeston – cum for me babe.

    Love Nicolas

  100. Fish do not need sex or physical affection and do just fine without it.

    Men DO need sex and physical affection and do NOT do well without it. Simple 🙂

    I wish Pixie was bent over in front of me right now!

  101. I used to be so promiscuous when I was younger, had 35 partners by the time I was 26, (first had sex at 18.) Cheated on my first bf with a few guys, just having fun, whatever. But at some point I became really introverted, finally went back to University, tried to hone my skill at my intended career path… Went 11 months without sex, I look back and think WTF but then remember I was busy going out and having fun at Uni and since then I’ve had sex with a few guys over the past year and a half, but no real connection. I masturbate daily but I feel self-conscious about myself now and I want a fuck buddy but I’m really shy, in a city in the Midlands now, and I don’t know how to find guys without going online! I haven’t had sex for two months now and the last time I did I felt self-conscious because I was groaning and then overthought the noises I was making and agh I don’t know

  102. I can’t deal with people who expect a relationship in return for sex. If it happens, it happens. Apparently, some gay men allow their straight women friends to define appropriate behaviour for them.

  103. Casual sex?

    Absolutely. I prefer relationships and love my husband but sex is fun. It’s a good release and better than masturbating. I’ve been in a relationship for eight years and haven’t cheated, but my casual sex days made me better at sex, made me appreciate my relationship, and helped me relax in life.

  104. Why can’t people accept that women enjoy casual sex too? It’s not only men who enjoy no-strings sex!

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    Virtual Sex is any kind of sexual activity that people engage in through their devices e.g. online/internet, via mobile phone (sexting) or tablet etc., without any physical contact in real-life. This includes chatting, flirting, sexting, masturbating together, sending intimate pics, and so much more!

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    Online Exhibitionism – Posting pics or vids of yourself to public websites or social media accounts.
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    Virtual sex is a fun option that allows you to explore and be adventurous, potentially letting you try things you didn’t know you liked and broadening your sexual repertoire in a way that physical sex doesn’t allow.

    Why do people have virtual sex?

    There are a ton of reasons why people engage in virtual sex. Here are a few:

    1. Virtual sex poses zero risks for pregnancy or STIs.
    2. It’s a good alternative for people abstaining from physical sex.
    3. It’s a good way to engage in foreplay prior to engaging in physical sex acts.
    4. It’s also a great option for people who are not comfortable (for whatever reason) with physical sex acts (oral, anal, vaginal, masturbation).
    5. Some partners do it to maintain sexual intimacy during a long-distance relationship.
    6. It’s a low-stakes way to try new things, like opening up your relationship or roleplaying different genders or sexual orientations.
    7. Because people think it’s fun and sexy!

  106. I was 18 and he was 23, I ended up teaching him things in the bedroom and had to constantly reassure him. Everyone else has been younger and less annoying – believe it or not.

  107. Briefly dated someone who was 37 when I was 24. Couldn’t see it going anywhere as he was way too close to his ex for my liking.

    He then mentioned marriage when we weren’t even together.

  108. Was with a 16-year-old when I was 20, never had an age problem.

    I’ve just turned 26 and would go 17-34 I think.

  109. I’m twenty-four, my boyfriend is thirty-six. Been going out for over two years now, and it’s going blissfully well Before that when I was twenty-one I had a boyfriend of thirty-three. Been trying to date guys closer to my age, but that never really went anywhere.

  110. In uni I had an incredibly brief thing with a female lecturer. I don’t know how old she was but it would have to be pushing 40.

  111. I cheated on my ex with a man 13 years older. We’re together now and it’s great. I’m aware of the age difference sometimes, but only in good ways.

  112. that’s absolutely disgusting, I don’t even understand how a teenage girl gets into the position of meeting and shagging someone old enough to be their grandad, wtf.

  113. I haven’t dated anyone with a big age gap personally, but my sister’s friend a few years ago (17 years old at the time) was dating a 45-year-old man for a couple of years, got engaged and everything. Pretty fucked up if you ask me but whatever floats your boat

  114. My current boyfriend is 10 years older (I’m 22, he’s 32). Been together for 1.5years.

    Pretty happy! He makes me laugh every day and treats me amazingly. You kind of forget there is an age gap.

  115. When I was 27 I dated a 19-year-old. That’s the biggest age gap I’ve been involved in, and it was a complete non-issue. We broke up after a while, for other reasons, but are still friends.

    Age is pretty unimportant to me so if I was single I wouldn’t rule out anyone based on age alone I don’t think.

  116. My fiance is 14 years older than me. How did it go? Well, we’re kind of getting married and looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together.

  117. So you’re saying an older guy is more likely to cheat on you? That’s a really unfair generalisation of older men. A guy your own age or younger is just as equally likely to cheat on you. Don’t tar all older men with the same brush. It is not a man’s age that determines whether he’ll cheat, but rather his morals and character.

  118. I was 19 and dated a 31-year-old. The sex was amazing, he knew exactly what to do and how to make me orgasm. He was a gentleman and took good care of me (both in the bedroom and outside). However in the end I found out he cheated so yeah. Never going for an older man again.

  119. I think it’s not necessarily age that determines whether a relationship is successful, but how compatible you are with each other.

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  123. Great advice there Carla xxx

    I would add, always test the waters before diving in!

    Instead of ‘rushing in’ before you have had the chance to get to know one another, you should first send him some sending ‘tamer sexts’ and see how she reacts before upping your game.

    “Love your pic. I’m so turned on just thinking about you.”
    “What are you into?”
    “I see you prefer to be dominant with men, well that suits me babe.”
    “Hope we can take this to the next level, what do you say?

    All of these examples are tame enough that they’re not going to cause much alarm or panic if they don’t hit the way you want them to. But if they do hit the spot, you can easily escalate from here.

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  124. Hi everyone, thought I’d drop a comment for you to read about ‘what is the safest environment for NSA adult fun (of the sex kind) 🙂

    Sexting is safer than sex IRL, this everyone knows and accepts. You can’t get a STD from sexting, or you couldn’t last time I looked up sexting. That said, you need to be careful, but it’s a different kind of careful. Sexting is all about ‘secrecy’ and not letting your partner (if you have one) know what you’re up to.

    Now that’s clear, let’s offer a ‘pro-tip’ to any novice (sexting virgin) who may be reading this.

    The golden rule when sexting someone is to do and say what you feel comfortable with. This is by far the most important sexting tip I can give you if you want to achieve the outcome you want. So, if you and your sexting partner are into filthy, sweaty, kinky sex filled with dirty talk, then it’s perfectly fine to use that kind of language in your messages.

    What you could say to me (her)…

    “I’m standing to attention for you already. Is your delicious pussy nice and wet for me babe?”
    “Trying so hard not to cum as I keep fucking you, precum already oozing from my shaft. I need to give it to you. Where do you want this spunk?”
    “I force your head down as you keep your ass up allowing me to really fuck your pussy deep. I pound your cunt relentlessly, thrust after thrust.”

    That’s enough for now, but you can catch me here

  125. We’ve all heard what techno-alarmists say about sexting: that it’s reprehensible, abnormal, manipulative, and just dim-witted. But in many ways, it’s a new kind of tailored erotica. Now, everybody is their own creator and illustrator with the capability to produce provoking, explicit stories for themselves and their object(s) of desire.

    Think of sexting as the most up-to-date chapter in a long history of people living out their relationships through words and images. I love it 🙂

    Becky, 36, Carlisle

  126. Sexting here is the safest if you’re sensible and don’t get caught by the OH. It’s weird but women see this as cheating and worse than cheating IRL because it’s a kind of betrayal of trust thing as they see it. Funny thing is guys believe that sexting a stranger you’ll never meet is not as bad to the OH as having physical sex with another woman for real. I know which I would prefer to happen with my OH

  127. Just wanted to add my take on safe spaces etc. Women can and often do come across aggressive men online. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure most men are gentlemen but there are way too many stalkers, weirdoes and damn right nasty men out there. They lie to get a woman’s trust and to get what they want, which is usually sex, but the really worrying aspect is the man who won’t take no for an answer and turns into a Mr Hyde type character and becomes demanding and even threatening. I know for genuine men reading this it will appear shocking and almost unbelievable that some women are treated so badly but it’s true. Being able to get it on with a man while keeping anonymous is why so many women love XXX Sex Contacts, me included. The sad truth is that some men treat women like a piece of meat there for their personal sexual satisfaction and are worthless entities to be used and cast away.

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  129. In the real world having sex with multiple partners carries risks of contracting an STD

    Best advice is don’t do it. If you must, ALWAYS wear a condom and never ever have unprotected sex. When you have sex with someone you are in effect having indirect sex with other sex partners THEY have slept with. As well as potentially infecting yourself you could be a risk of infecting any sex partner you have – appli3es equally to male and female.

    Chlamydia, the most commonly reported STD. It’s spread mostly by vaginal or anal sex, but you can get it through oral sex, too.

    Gonorrhea is another common bacterial STD. People often get it with chlamydia, and the symptoms are similar: unusual discharge from the vagina or penis, or pain or burning when you pee.

    Syphilis is a tricky disease with four stages. In the primary stage, the main symptom is a sore. Sometimes syphilis is called the “great imitator” because the sore can look like a cut, an ingrown hair, or a harmless bump. The secondary stage starts with a rash on your body, followed by sores in your mouth, vagina, or anus.

    Herpes, both strains of the herpes virus, HSV-1, and HSV-2, can cause genital herpes, but usually, the culprit is HSV-2. The main symptom of herpes is painful blisters around the penis, vagina, or anus. But you might get blisters inside your vagina or anus where you can’t see or feel them. Not everyone who has herpes gets blisters. Herpes is easy to catch. All it takes is skin-to-skin contact, including areas that a condom doesn’t cover.

    Trichomoniasis. More women than men get trichomoniasis, which is caused by a tiny parasite. Men and women can give it to each other through penis-vagina contact. Women can give it to each other when their genital areas touch. Only about 30% of people with trichomoniasis have symptoms including itching, burning, or sore genitals. You might also see a smelly, clear, white, yellowish, or greenish discharge.

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  148. 20 things every woman thinks after a one night stand

    Having a one night stand could be seen as a bit of a rite of passage. Most of us have had one at one point in our lives and, far from being judged for partaking in the occasional 24-hour dalliance, people these days accept fleeting nights of passion as part of standard sexual exploration. However, regardless of how many you’ve had, or your opinion of them, there can be no disputing they’re not without their own set of post-coital issues. From what the hell their name was to whether you’ll be able to successfully retrieve all your clothes without waking them up, here are 22 things everyone thinks after a one night stand.

    1. WATER Let’s be honest – you’re usually hungover the morning after a one night stand.

    2. I’m at home… But when did I redecorate in blue? No, I’m not at home.

    3. There’s a real live human next to me. And he has a beard. I don’t remember a beard. Oh, hang on, inner thigh carpet burns … I remember a beard.

    4. I’ll check my phone 7% #Hotsweat.

    5. We’re both totally naked.

    6. Where the hell are my knickers?… And where’s the loo. I need to wee so badly. *Clenches pelvic floor*

    7. Can I retrieve all my clothes without him waking up? Or seeing me *totally* naked in broad daylight.

    8. What the hell was his name? Maybe I’ll call him honey… Too naff. Darling? … Ekk Hey you? … Argh.

    9. Why is my bum sore? Oh, crap.

    10. I’m still horny. Maybe I’ll wake him with a blowjob. I wonder how big his penis is. I should know this.

    11. There’s a condom on the floor PHEW!

    12. He’s awake, I should say something Hey, you…

    13. And make up something about having to be somewhere grown up. Oh good, he’s bought my excuse/is relieved I’m making an exit.

    14. Seriously, where the hell are my knickers?!

    15. What’s that noise? Oh man, he has flatmates. Going to have to sneak out stealthily.

    16. Bye then… I haven’t brushed my teeth. And still can’t find my knickers. *Dirty pants fear*

    17. He says he’ll see me around, which makes me feel special.

    18. At least I had sex that was OK-ish.

    19. I’ll own this walk of shame to the bus stop, in the rain because my phone is now dead and I can’t get an Uber. And my beard-burned thighs are still chafing. And I’m wearing no knickers. And he didn’t take my number. And I’m in zone six.

    20. One night stands are such fun *Weeps*

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  149. One night stands: a woman’s perspective

    They sound like fun, and often are (but sometimes aren’t). Caroline Kent explains why we make one night stands a lot more complicated than they need to be.

    Nothing ruins the fun of a no-strings-attached rendezvous quite like your friends reminding you of all of the ways you could have been killed by the stranger in front of whom you just got naked. Nothing except feelings, that is. Those can ruin ONS’s too. But my generation better get used to them, because as the gap between puberty and marriage gets ever wider, we’re increasingly turning to casual encounters as a way to express and satisfy our sexuality.

    My most recent ONS happened by accident. It started out innocently enough, as an “actual” date… but I was in the wake of a break-up. The kind that doesn’t shatter you completely, but chips away at your ego slowly and surely, so that every time someone asks, “So are yoanymoreeing ___ any more?” you remember that you’re going home to a cold, empty apartment. One of those break-ups.

    So I did the thing you shouldnt do when you’re feeling insecure and needy. I went on a date with a friend-of-a friend-of-an-acquaintance with whom I had exchanged numbers at a party. I drank too much wine, I waffled on about how I had no idea where my life was really going, and then, inspired by that old student adage, “drunk sex is better than no sex,” I took him home.

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    The therapeutic nature of a ONS shouldn’t be underestimated; sometimes you just need to get the sad shagged out of you. And you see, we gals can weave a complex web of sexual starvation for ourselves to flounder in. From work to the gym to the bar, my schedule is crammed full of things that help me forget that I am sometimes horribly lonely.

    Like everyone, sex can slide down my list of priorities without me even realising. I may effervess with lust, but inside I’m the sexual equivalent of a daddy-long-legs that’s had its legs pulled off. So you’ll excuse me for brushing out the cobwebs accumulating in my mojo with a phallic feather duster from time to time.

    Does being so desperate for human contact that I occasionally flop into a stranger’s bed make me sexually liberated? For sure. It’s 2018. What’s interesting though, is that whilst guys and girls may have equal access to casual sex, we don’t seem to have a comparable likelihood of orgasm. Recent research from the International Academy of Sex Research found that Women are 50% less likely to orgasm from casual sex than men.

    I’ve found men can be wounded by this, but don’t feel like a failure. The orgasm is not necessarily the pinnacle of sexual enjoyment, there’s the emotional fulfillment of feeling sexually accomplished (having a man’s pleasure totally at your mercy is kind of empowering) and sexual desire is far more complex than one validatory factor can account for.

    Science may simply blame my menstrual cycle for influencing my sexual motivation. During the ovulatory phase women report increased sexual desire and arousal, with a preference for short-term partners. What’s more, biologists have recently suggested that females are drawn to the benefits of mating with many men as it increases the genetic diversity of their offspring.

    But before you get too excited at the idea that being promicuous is exactly what our DNA intended, bear in mind that Joe S. McIlhaney Jr and Freda McKissic Bush’s book Hooked: New Science on How Casual Sex is Affecting Our Children argues that millions of us are finding that the psychological baggage of hooking up is having a lasting impact. Apparently the brain chemicals released during sex result in emotional bonding and a powerful desire to repeat the activity. We are literally becoming addicted to bed-hopping…

    There’s a lot to think about, so whatever your reasons for having a one night stand, these 10 tips cover how you should handle them:

    1. Firstly, if you’re planning on pulling, clean your place before you leave. Nothing shatters tantalising sexual potential faster than the phrase “Sorry about the smell.”

    2. Skip that last glass for the road (equipment failures, dehydration, clumsy condom application, enough said).

    3. Do it for the right reasons. Good reason: you’re horny, keen, and curious to explore your sexuality. Bad reason: you want a partner and are secretly hoping that the sex will lead to something more serious.

    4. Do not Facebook-stalk them afterwards. If you’re feeling attention-starved, go hang out with friends instead.

    5. Stop showing off. This is a drive-through, not a three-course meal. A bit of foreplay followed by two positions, max.

    6. If you wouldn’t treat a girlfriend that way, don’t treat a ONS that way. The most important aspect of this is…

    7. Be straight. Let both parties enter the night on an equal footing. You may feel a little vulnerable, but if you don’t actually see yourself having a realtionship with this person, don’t waste each other’s time with the promise of future engagements. Ask yourself: Do you really want to see her again, or do you just want her to want to see you? Don’t ask for her number when you have no intentions of calling. Don’t suggest brunch next week. Don’t start feeling bad that you’ve been a hussy and attempt to quash your insecurities by pretending you’re in love with me. Simply say, “I had a really fun time with you.”

    8. If you go to her place, stay the night. Don’t panic, she’s not going to introduce you to her mum over breakfast, but if you bail minutes after sex, it can make a woman feel a bit disposable.

    9. If she comes to your place, be a good host. Offer a cup of coffee, but don’t be too familiar (what is it with men peeing with the bathroom door open after we’ve only just met?).

    10. Deal with the immediate aftermath carefully. Caught out on a ONS? The City Concierge Company is a home supplies agency that will deliver a post-ONS care package to wherever you are in London within one hour: a freshly ironed shirt, some deodorant, a toothbrush, paracetamol, and a Red Bull.


  150. Casual sex. Good idea or don’t do it? The question is straightforward. The answer, like many questions, however, is somewhat complicated. I would argue there’s no definitive right or wrong. It all depends on ‘this, that and the other’… hehe. We are all unique at the end of the day.

  151. “Forget fuckboys. I’m a fuckgirl. And that’s okay.” It’s Sunday morning and there’s a man lying next to me in my bed. My head is throbbing, my throat is dry, my phone’s on 13 percent battery. I know that after about 20 minutes when this man leaves, I’ll probably never see him again. And that’s okay with me. It’s exactly what I wanted.

    Most weekends, it’s the same story. Get dressed up on a Saturday night, go out with friends, down a few shots, dance, go home with someone.

    Since I became single last year after a two-year relationship, I’ve wanted nothing more than casual sex. For me, it’s the best kind of arrangement. You have the sex, you have the cuddle, then you go your separate ways and don’t talk to each other until you want it again.

    Don’t get me wrong, I love romance. But as a successful woman in my mid-20s, I don’t want a relationship. I don’t even want to date, necessarily. I just want sex. A Vanity Fair article I saw online addressed the new age of men who use dating apps to sleep around as ‘fuckboys’. These men, the article explains, view women as something to house their cocks – just for a night, or on a casual basis, until they got bored of them.

    But forget fuckboys. I’m a fuckgirl. And proud of it.

    For myself, and others like me, dating apps like Happn and Hinge are my hunting ground. I’m not on there to find a boyfriend. I’m on there to meet someone who I am attracted to – and who is attracted to me. Someone who wants to go for a drink, maybe dinner, then go home with me. It doesn’t have to happen right away, but it does need to happen for me to remain interested.

  152. The Pros And Cons Of Casual Sex – Friends with benefits can also have their disadvantages. Some people believe casual sex relationships are easy and have no complications, but sex is loaded with emotions and often you can receive mixed messages, especially after having sex that leaves you excited for days. The study found that socio-sexually unrestricted students — that is, those who slept around — reported higher wellbeing after casual sex. The researchers found lower stress and higher thriving followed casual sex, “suggesting that high socio-sexuality may both buffer against any potentially harmful consequences of casual sex and allow access to its potential benefits”.

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  153. Sexual roleplay is roleplay that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual roleplay as a means of overcoming sexual inhibitions. It may take place in the real world, or via an internet forum, chat-room, or email—allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interests to be enacted.

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  154. In short: BS 🙂
    – I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lot of fake profiles and all sorts of “scammers”, e-mail collectors, etc…
    – Secondly, even those very very few… basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain to many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves
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  155. Ashley Madison may be legit but it’s so unwieldy and expensive to use, it’s not worth it.

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  156. They are all scams. Unfortunately, I have wasted a lot of money to find this out. Adult Friend Finder is one big scam and so is and eHarmony. You get sucked in with “free weekends” or “free to join” then get bombarded with messages from fake women asking you to contact them, but first you have to pay. As soon as you pay your membership, those women all disappear. As soon as eHaemony got my money, they told me that they could not match me with anyone! I’m not rich and don’t drive a BMW but other than that I’m a normal single white male.

  157. Nope… all sex sites are scams. Don’t waste your money. I know girls that get paid to be on sites like xxxdating and xxxconnect and Ashley Madison. Its all a scam. And for the record.. Eharmony is NO different than any other dating site. The best one is free plenty of fish. Lavalife is OK, but costs to talk to women. But I hooked up with lots of girls on plenty, lavalife .. Eharmony was a joke. Its no different than any other dating site. I would never recommend harmony to any one unless they lived in the south pole and only had dial up access to only that site…and even then, the penguins would get more action than you that weekend.

  158. All sex dating sites are fake most made up by criminal gangs overseas out to rip you off, they’ll not steal your credit card or money off your card because they need to keep their site open but what they will do is con you into believing the women are real, as if a beautiful good looking woman would put her self on a sex site asking or begging for sex if shes going to do that she may as well get paid for her beautiful body, so stay clear.

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  159. I am 55 and fed up with these so-called sites where you can always meet a woman. That’s until you disclose you are 55 that’s when you discover that all the older women want young guys and young girls don’t do it with older guys. Yet on the front cover, everyone does it and there’s no bar. All I want is to meet a married woman who is between 35 & 60 looking for some fun is that too much to ask?

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  162. ALL sex dating sites are scams, usually run from America. Do not waste your money. If you want to meet a partner stay away from any site that offers members wanting just sex. THEY ARE ALL SCAMS!

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  164. You mean, sites were real women/men want to have sex with you and not just people who get paid to send you a message but never meeting you in real. I would also be curious if such sites exist were people don’t get fooled.

  165. Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren’t scams? If not, which come the closest to having actual members contacting each other>

  166. Everyone knows that lots of people use apps like Tinder for meeting partners for casual sex, or “hooking up”. Data from a recent survey (Carpenter and McEwan, 2016) of college students shows that in this sample, the top three reasons for using dating apps were, in order: entertainment, dating, and sex (a close third). If you browse through Tinder, which I have, it’s quite the menagerie. A panoply of human splendor, if you will, but often poignant and lonely. At times reminiscent of a stroll through Amsterdam’s Red Light District, not in terms of literal financial transactions, but in the sense of a candidly sexual department store window display — mass objectification. One gets the subtle hint that it is easy to find a lover, take-out or delivery. At other times, it seems like folks are looking for something durable, the vaunted secure attachment perhaps, with admonitions to “swipe left” if looking for a hook-up, and frank inquiries — looking for a life partner, 40-something with “eggs on ice.”


  167. The best casual sex experience I had was when this guy was really caring, asked me what I wanted, that was the best. I’d rather emotions be present even if it’s casual. I didn’t plan to have sex randomly. We were both tipsy, so it kind of just happened. I never expected it to go anywhere further or turning into anything “special.”

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