{"id":1530,"date":"2018-02-13T18:27:39","date_gmt":"2018-02-13T18:27:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/?p=1530"},"modified":"2019-09-19T12:52:17","modified_gmt":"2019-09-19T11:52:17","slug":"what-makes-a-real-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/what-makes-a-real-man\/","title":{"rendered":"What Makes Real Men, According To Women?"},"content":{"rendered":"

What are the characteristics of real men?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here are the essential characteristics of real men, according to our women.<\/p>\n

Being a real man is not as simple as it sounds, particularly these days. Men are becoming more and more feminised. Many men have lost their masculinity and don\u2019t behave like they were meant to.<\/p>\n

We won\u2019t tell you that you need to be confident or have strong body language to be an alpha male. Instead, we\u2019re going to reveal the essential qualities of a real man \u2013 the characteristics that, according to our women, separate a desirable man from a helpless loser.<\/p>\n

If your personality traits don\u2019t match exactly to these traits, then you have two choices:<\/p>\n

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  1. Ignore this blog and leave the page. But we want you to have the best chance of attracting women. You won\u2019t be successful here if you can\u2019t handle the truth or accept your flaws and work to improve them.<\/li>\n
  2. Here\u2019s your opportunity to improve your desirability to women.  So without any more ado, let\u2019s begin.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Firstly, it goes without saying that your self-development shouldn\u2019t end when you reach the bottom of this page. This blog is only your starting point. When you adopt the characteristics of a ‘real man’, you won\u2019t only be more attractive to the opposite sex, but it\u2019s highly likely that you\u2019ll be more successful in life generally.<\/p>\n

    Now, most men will only be able to claim 4 or 5 (at best) of the characteristics of masculinity we have identified. This means the characteristics are not inherent in men, but that they can be developed.<\/p>\n

    The first step is for you to know what women say are the characteristics they look for most in a real man. Whichever of these characteristics you can honestly ‘tick off’, remember no man is perfect. It is extremely unlikely that you will be able to tick each characteristic off as being ‘you’.  Every man makes mistakes; get\u2019s it wrong occasionally (at least) and will cross the lines sometimes.  No man is perfect, from a woman’s perspective, only in his own mind!<\/p>\n

    The aim is to reduce mistakes, never make the same mistake twice and work hard every day to become (even more<\/em>) attractive to women.<\/p>\n

    You might never become 100% perfect for your dream girl, but what matters is to rise from a beta to an alpha male.<\/p>\n

    Right, let\u2019s do this:<\/p>\n

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    • Manly men are decisive<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Do you wait for someone else to make decisions, or find yourself being vague?<\/p>\n

      Or<\/p>\n

      Are you someone who can ‘take-charge’ and make quick, well-thought-out, decisions?<\/p>\n

      For instance:<\/p>\n

      Below are examples of what a real man should NOT say when a woman asks him about going out:<\/p>\n

      \u201cOh I don\u2019t know babe, what do you want to do?\u201d<\/p>\n

      \u201cI don\u2019t mind. What do you fancy doing?\u201d<\/p>\n

      \u201cIt\u2019s up to you really; do you have anything in mind?\u201d<\/p>\n

      Be honest. Does this sound like someone you know?<\/p>\n

      Women want their men to take charge and make decisions (quickly) \u2013 either positive or negative.<\/p>\n

      You might say:<\/p>\n

      \u201cLet\u2019s go to \u2018A\u2019, do \u2018B\u2019 and then we can \u2018C\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n

      Or<\/p>\n

      \u201cI don’t fancy it tonight. Can’t we talk tomorrow?\u201d<\/p>\n

      See the difference?<\/p>\n

      In the first case, the alpha male makes a specific positive decision. It doesn\u2019t matter if she likes the idea or not. What matters is to make a bloody decision \u2013 that\u2019s why she is asking you. She doesn\u2019t want to hear: \u201cI don\u2019t know\u201d or “What do you want to do?”.<\/p>\n

      A real man, according to women, is someone who knows what he wants.<\/p>\n