{"id":797,"date":"2017-03-13T19:21:14","date_gmt":"2017-03-13T19:21:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/?p=797"},"modified":"2019-09-19T13:02:09","modified_gmt":"2019-09-19T12:02:09","slug":"sexting-real-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/sexting-real-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"How to turn Sexting into real sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

How to turn Sexting into real sex<\/strong><\/p>\n

Posted by: Kerry, 34, find me in the northeast region<\/a><\/p>\n

Sexting is great, but if you’re like all other red-blooded males, you\u2019re ultimately going to fancy turning it into real sex.<\/p>\n

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Sexting\u2019 is one of those expressions you\u2019re already familiar with. Not least of all since you\u2019re wondering how to move from sexting to having real sex. Sexting by itself isn\u2019t a bad way to spend your time\u2014particularly if it happens to be with Lucy Mecklenburgh\u2014but let\u2019s face it, that\u2019s not going to happen, so here\u2019s your step-by-step guide to moving from sexting to real sex.<\/p>\n

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  1. Start Slow<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Yes, there truly are guys who are going to jump straight in and send a girl a dick pic right off the bat. You don\u2019t want to be that guy. It\u2019s not that we don\u2019t imagine your impressive meat sabre isn\u2019t exciting enough to merit her consideration; it\u2019s just that she\u2019s more into you than the size of your cock. So slow down there, Tiger. She\u2019ll want to see it ultimately. Instead, begin with casual flirting and good-humoured teasing, just like if you were chatting in a bar.<\/p>\n

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    1. Push the Envelope<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      This may seem to challenge the last point, but it\u2019s all about weighing the scales. It\u2019s up to you to slowly but surely turn up the heat. You do that by pushing her margins a little, bit by bit. Don\u2019t be frightened to be edgy. You aren\u2019t talking with your mother; you\u2019re trying to get sizzling hot with the girl you\u2019re into. Feel free to use jokes and innuendo’s to push your way into the good stuff, and bear in mind: in this situation, it\u2019s always better to ask for forgiveness than consent.<\/p>\n

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      1. Adjust to Her Reactions<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Of course, pushing the envelope doesn\u2019t mean being a total prick. You want to boost the height of eroticism and closeness without making her feel uncomfortable. If she seems to be a little put off, back off a little. You don\u2019t have to stop entirely, just dial down the intensity a notch or two.  Think two steps forward, one step back. If she continues to appear uncomfortable, then it\u2019s time to take a break. Alternately, if you drop an implication that can be interpreted as innocent or dirty, and she takes it the dirty route, go with it, young man.<\/p>\n

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        1. Be Careful with Pics<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Not to sound like your high school health teacher, but keep in mind that in the digital age, pictures can spread like wildfire. No matter how proud you are of all that time spent at the gym, you almost certainly don\u2019t want to be on creepymen.com (we just bought the url!). If your lady is exhibiting signs of being a crazy bitch, absolutely do not send her a picture\u2026 of anything. If you must, at least leave your face out of it.<\/p>\n

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          1. Walk the Talk<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            You should certainly not promise anything in a sext session that you can\u2019t deliver in real life. Sincerity counts, because if you\u2019re bull shitting her, she\u2019s going to find out in the end. Feel free to be really graphic, as you\u2019re only working with words\u2014no vocal tonality, eye contact or hand motions. Women can be just as dirty as guys, but they normally also want a man with a mind. In other words, scintillatingly intelligent dirty talk will blow her mind.<\/p>\n

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            1. Make It Happen<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              That said sexting can be a step above self-pleasuring. You want to get her doing the real thing. If you two are distant geographically, you\u2019re just going to have to bring this thing to its rational finale and hope she\u2019s interested later. But if you\u2019re in the same city, it\u2019s time to steer the conversation toward your, um, male needs. Frame it in terms of feeling lonely rather than getting off. Then offer to go to her. Asking her to come to you isn\u2019t so cool, since no lady likes to feel like a prostitute. At least not on the first date.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

              How to turn Sexting into real sex Posted by: Kerry, 34, find me in the northeast region Sexting is great, but if you’re like all other red-blooded males, you\u2019re ultimately going to fancy turning it into real sex. XXX Sex Homepage Sexting\u2019 is one of those expressions you\u2019re already familiar with. Not least of all since … Read more…<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":799,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1235,1239,83],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/797"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=797"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/797\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5071,"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/797\/revisions\/5071"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=797"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=797"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xxxsexcontacts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=797"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}