Frequently asked questions

The UK's Largest
Adult Sexting Introduction Service

  • How do I start to text Women?

    For your ideal sex text experience: Check out the profiles, decide which best fits what you're looking for and make a note of the Username. You should then text 'T2M' followed by the Woman's Username followed by your message. So for example, if you want to sex text with Abbi, you would text the following substituting 'XXXX' with your message:

    T2M Abbi XXXX

    to shortcode:

    69500

    Once you've sent her a text, you'll receive a text back asking for your Date of Birth (DOB), simply reply with your DOB, for example text:

    09.09.1974

    to shortcode:

    69500

    To continue to text, send your message like so:

    I love your profile, are you up for some sexy fun?

    to shortcode::

    69500

  • How do I text a different woman?

    For security reasons, you can only text one woman at a time. To text another Woman you have 2 options:

    1. If you know her Username you would text 'T2M' followed by the Woman's Username followed by your message. So for example, if you want to switch to Abbi, you would text the following substituting 'XXXX' with your message:

      T2M Abbi XXXX

      to shortcode::

      69500

      To continue to text send your message like so:

      Wow! you're hot, can you send me some pics?

      to shortcode:

      69500

    2. Alternatively, to text another woman our system can match one for you, just text:

      SWAP

      to shortcode::

      69500

      To continue to text your new Sex Partner, send your message like so:

      I love your tits. Are they real?

      to shortcode:

      69500

  • Mobile network 'THREE' customers only: Why aren't I receiving messages?

    It could be that you have reached your daily PRS inbound text message limit.

    Network operator 'THREE' has effectively imposed a daily PRS limit (20 messages or less) on all its customers. This means if you're a 'THREE' customer, once the message limit is reached all private PRS text messages sent to your handset will fail until 12AM.

    This applies to all 'THREE' customers: You will not be able to continue using the service once the limit is reached, even if you want to.

    This decision by 'THREE' means your freedom of choice has been taken away from you.

    POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS: If you're unhappy about this restriction, you could consider switching to another network provider, e.g. O2, EE or Vodafone. If you are bound to 'THREE' by a contract, you could consider using/switching to PAYG (pay-as-you-go) as an alternative, so that you can continue to receive private messages.

    If you're happy with the restriction imposed on your handset by 'THREE', then you don't need to do anything.

  • What stops me ending up with a bigger phone bill due to a 'text-happy' girl?

    Good question. But it's not going to happen!

    We received the following message from David:
    'Hi I am very keen to use your service for the first time, but one thing slightly bothers me, I have no problems with the cost of texts received if they are kept to a sensible amount, but wouldn't want to end up with a massive bill at the expense of a "text happy" girl. Do you encourage the ladies to have a common sense approach on this point? Thanks David' (Edited)

    Answer: Our system controls the amount of messages your chosen sex contact can send to you. When you send a message through our service, your sex contact is restricted by our system, to sending you a maximum of three replies (texts) per message she receives from you. This prevents a runaway scenario of the kind David raises.

    There are rules to using the service, and we expect all parties to abide by them. You can opt-out by sending 'STOP' to 69500. Once a stop message is received, girls are automatically 'locked-out' by our system, which prevents them from texting you until you text in again. When you text in after a stop message, the 'block' is lifted and your chosen sex contact will be able to contact you again.

    Should you feel a girl texts you inappropriately, you should speak up. First by texting the girl concerned. Then to us. With your informed consent, we can investigate service interactions. But the service is private and confidential and messages are a personal matter between consenting adults.

    We do not (and can not) control who says what to whom. That said, we would not expect a scenario of the kind David raises to ever happen. If you feel a girl is abusing the service, you should contact us immediately. A 'text happy' girl scenario would fall into the category of (service) abuse and will not be tolerated.

    Unlike others, this sex contact service is genuine and not about making money from you. It is about providing a quality service - the charge to you for receiving personal messages from your chosen sex contacts is a contribution towards the costs associated with running such a secure servcice via mobile technology - including network charges and VAT etc. If there was a lower cost way of providing such a service taking account of ease of access, safety, security and which would deliver the results you demand, then we would use it.

    Thank you to David for raising this.

  • Where do the Women live?

    Sex Text: All the Women live right here in the UK, are genuine about wanting to hear from men, are broad-minded and have diverse Sexual preferences which are 'Tagged' on each profile page.

    YOU get to choose and manage all your contacts.
    1) You can start and stop whenever you want.
    2) You can contact as many women as you want.
    3) You remain in control at all times.
    4) You decide the best times to send and receive messages.
    5) Safe. Secure. Confidential. Fast.

    Are some or all of the women prostitutes or escorts?
    No. We do not allow prostitutes, escorts, massage parlours, or anyone involved in the ‘Pay for sex’ trade to use the service.

    Is this an automated service?
    No. We guarantee that all your replies will come from real women. You can ask them whatever you like.

  • Can I text and receive explicit pics?

    Yes. However, we're advocates of responsible Adult conduct. To help protect minors from seeing Sexually explicit images, we don't show x-rated photos in publically accessible areas of our Web site. But Sex Contacts are free to share explicit images with you in PRIVATE.

  • Why don't I receive explicit texts (pics)?

    Most Woman have explicit photos to share, if you find that you only seem to receive soft images, you may have to remove a 'content lock' on your mobile by contacting your network provider.

  • What is a text shortcode?

    Our systems use what is called a 'shortcode'. This is 69500 used to enable you to send to our servers for delivery to the Sex Text contact you want to exchange messages with. It also ensures safety for both parties. It's advisable to store the number in your phone's memory for ease of use when sending.

    Protect Your Number - stay safe, smart and secure
    Girls: Your profile will show our 5 digit 'shortcode' number instead of your mobile number. When our system receives a message for you, it will be automatically directed to you without you ever having to reveal your personal mobile number to a stranger.

    Guys: Whether you choose to send a message using either our free-to-send WEBMO (web-to-mobile) feature or your mobile phone, our system will automatically forward your message and hide your mobile number so that the recipient will never see your personal mobile number. This gives you added security and protection from unwanted messages and helps to ensure you stay in control at all times.

    WHY DO I NEED IT?
    Using a shortcode allows us to block anyone that abuses the service. This means you can spend more time talking with genuine sex contacts.

    FOR GUYS: Why do I have to text to a shortcode and not to a woman's personal mobile number?
    Because not surprisingly women aren't keen to give out their mobile numbers for all to see on the Internet. So we provide a safe way for them to make contact with you.

  • What does it cost to sex text?

    It's only £1.50 to receive a PRIVATE text from your secret text contact. Normal network charges apply to messages you send to her from your mobile phone. However, messages you send from our site's 'WEBMO' feature (web-to-mobile) are completely free to send.

    How is payment made?
    We just bill you via your mobile phone, which means you don’t need to worry about giving any credit card or bank details to us.

    NB. Please use the service responsibly and always check the charges and our terms of service prior to using the service.

  • Which networks does your text system work on?
    • Abica
    • Asda Mobile
    • Blyk
    • BT Mobile
    • EE
    • Family Mobile
    • Giffgaff
    • Lebara Mobile
    • LycaMobile
    • O2
    • Orange
    • Talkmobile
    • Tesco Mobile
    • T-Mobile
    • Vectone
    • Virgin Mobile
    • Vodafone
    • 3
  • Is this a conventional dating site?

    No. This is not a dating site for those seeking love, romance or marriage. It's purely Sex between consenting Adults. There's no guaranteed meetings here, but if you're sensible and realistic your experience will be ABSOLUTELY AWESOME and you will get everything you want!

  • I'm a Woman in the UK wanting to sex text. What should I do?

    Use our join page to contact us. Please give as much information about yourself as possible - once we receive your details, someone should get back to you within 7 days. If you don't hear anything within that time, then please feel free to contact us again. YOU MUST BE OVER 21, live in the UK and be genuine about wanting to hear from men who want no-strings-attached Adult Fun. You should be broad-minded, Sexually creative and comfortable with engaging in explicit Sexual scenarios with strangers. If you're easily offended, it's not for you.

  • How do I contact you?

    If you have any questions or feedback, or if you just want to say 'Hi', feel free to get in touch! My name's Emma V and you can drop me a line anytime. Just use our online form at: Contact Us. BTW. If you've got a story to tell about your Sexual exploits here, I'd love to hear it!

  • How do I quit the service and stop the text messages coming?

    You can stop anytime you want, simply text:

    STOP

    to shortcode:

    69500

    NB. We do our best to make sure the stop command is instant. However the sms network can be slow and in rare cases there can be a short delay where messages could still be delivered to you.

  • What if I have a sex text query?

    RESPONSIBLE ADULTS 18+ ONLY PLEASE. If you have a query, then you should seek clarification from us before continuing. You can contact us anytime 24/7 x 365 days using the form on our Contact Page

    What we will do
    We will aim to acknowledge your communication within 2 hours of receiving it. In most cases we'll be able to answer your query almost immediately. However, should we need to investigate something you've told us about, then it may take a little longer. If this is the case, we’ll email you at the address you provided on the Contact Form to explain what steps we're taking, and when we should be in a position to respond fully. Please note that we may need to request further information.

    Protecting user anonymity is very important to us
    Due to the Sexual content of messages and for reasons of protecting User confidentiality, we will not disclose or enter into any discussion relating to specific User interactions, including the content of messages and images received or sent. All User interactions are a matter of strict confidentiality between two consenting Adults and must remain so.

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Having problems receiving messages?
MOBILE PHONE ADULT BAR

How do I remove an Adult Bar from my phone?

Contact your mobile network operator and ask for the adult bar to be lifted.

What is happening? If you are unable to receive any text messages from us you may have an Adult bar on your mobile phone. Unless you tell your mobile provider otherwise, they may assume you are under 18 and restrict you from using adult services.

But don't worry, it’s easy to remove and embarrassment-free. You just need to call your mobile phone provider and ask for the adult bar to be lifted. They will ask you if you are over 18 and may ask for a credit card to verify your age. They won't ask you any personal questions.

For a list of who to call please see below:

Orange
Orange Customer Services (450) from your orange mobile (fixed 25 pence). They will require your credit card to identify you in order to perform an age check.

All new Orange Pay Monthly customers are automatically allowed access to age restricted services unless they request otherwise.

O2
O2 customers should call 61018 from their O2 mobile and follow the instructions, you will need your credit card. You can also go to your nearest O2 store. Simply take documents to verify your name, address and age - e.g a utility bill, bank statement, driving license, passport or your birth certificate.

You will be required to validate that the phone will be used by you, that you are 18 or older and that you want the phone to be able to access adult services.

Vodafone
Vodafone customers should call 1581 (free) for information from Vodafone about Content Control. You can register online at Vodafone Registration or call the operator (191) from your Vodafone mobile. You will then be connected to an operator (fixed 25 pence). They will require your credit card to identify you in order to perform an age check.

T-Mobile
From your T-Mobile phone call 1818 (Free Service). They require your credit card ready as proof of age or you can use the T-Mobile website at www.t-mobile.co.uk. Alternatively you can go to your nearest t-mobile store. Take documents to verify your name, address and age. For example: utility bill, bank statement, driving license, passport or your birth certificate.

You will be required to validate that the phone will be used by you and that you are over 18 years old.

Virgin
From your Virgin phone, call customer services on 789 (fixed 10p). Then select option 0 which takes you straight to a customer service agent who can remove the bar.

NB. If your mobile phone is not adult content barred but you have a problem receiving messages from us, then you should contact us via our Contact Form and we will immediately investigate. Also, should you feel messages are taking a long time to come through to you (e.g. over 4 minutes) then please let us know and we will investigate on your behalf.

Having problems accessing some areas of our site?
INTERNET BLOCKING RESTRICTIONS

Virgin Media - Internet Blocking Restrictions
In preparation for legislation coming into effect with regards to restriction of inappropriate material for children, if you are having problems with content being blocked you will need to contact your service provider.

TalkTalk - Internet Blocking Restrictions
In preparation for legislation coming into effect with regards to restriction of inappropriate material for children, if you are having problems with content being blocked you will need to contact your service provider.

Sky - Internet Blocking Restrictions
Sky have released some changes to their filtering services to start blocking access on certain websites for new customers, they've also begun rolling it out to some existing customers.

You can make changes to your Sky Broadband Shield to remove the filtering, for more information or help please speak to Sky or visit the Sky Broadband Shield Help.

BT - Internet Blocking Restrictions
In preparation for legislation coming into effect with regards to restriction of inappropriate material for children, if you are having problems with content being blocked you will need to contact your service provider.

For further information about filtering you can visit - BT Family Protection.

Other - Internet Blocking Restrictions
In preparation for legislation coming into effect with regards to restriction of inappropriate material for children, if you are having problems with content being blocked you will need to contact your service provider.

IMPORTANT INFORMATION

Basic Service Rules and Guidance

For your own safety and the safety of others
Rule 1. Use the service responsibly and as intended, and do not spend more than you can reasonably afford.
Rule 2. Do not include any personal identifying details in messages.
Rule 3. Don't pressure girls to meet. It makes them feel uneasy and may lead to your number being blocked. This is an adult sexting introduction service and not a dating site.
Rule 4. Do not ask girls to contact you via alternative means. The way this works is for their protection and yours.
Rule 5. Time-wasters are not welcome. It only leads to frustration and it's pointless. If you aren't serious, then don't bother. This service is for genuine users only.
Rule 6. This is a UK Adult Over 18s Service Only. Do not attempt to use the service if you are outside the UK or in the UK and under 18 years of age.
Rule 7. We operate a zero tolerance to abuse of any kind. Please respect other people's boundaries and remember that no means NO.

SERVICE DESCRIPTION: Adult Sexting Introduction Service
* Before you use the service:

1. You should refer to our full Terms of Service which can by easily accessed via the 'Terms of Service' link at the bottom of the 'Home Page';
2. If you have a question or query about the service, or if you are unsure about what the service is, how it works or what you will be charged for using it, you MUST seek clarification from us PRIOR to using the service;
3. It is your responsibility to satisfy yourself that the service is what you want BEFORE you use it.

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* Added: 13.04.2016 @ 15:23

Update on: 12/05/2017