5 steamy ways to make fingering more comfortable for you. Generally, fingering is supposed to be for our own enjoyment.
If you’ve been finding your fingering sesh to be less than comfortable, there are some easy things you can do to make them better. That way you’ll hopefully be able to enjoy the pleasurable experience that fingering is meant to be. Below are steamy ways to make fingering more comfortable for you.
1. Try some other foreplay methods. Fingering might focus on just the vag, but sometimes it’s actually better if you focus on doing other stuff that isn’t related to your vag before you start fingering. Try other hot foreplay acts such as boob stuff, kissing, or even just getting to know other parts of your body.
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2. Think about your emotions. If you’ve tried fingering a few times and you still find it unbearably uncomfortable, think about whether you really want this. Do you actually like the thought of being fingered, or are you doing it for your partner? Or are you doing it because you think it’s what you’re supposed to do? If you’re having second thoughts, hold off.
3. Make sure his fingernails are well trimmed. Fingers can be difficult enough to put into a vagina so you don’t want long nails making things harder. Besides, long nails can lead to some damage down there. Remember, your vagina is sensitive.
4. Take it slow. It is not a race. If you’re used to masturbating at high speeds, you might be confused why the same fast pace during fingering doesn’t feel as good. Chances are it’s because you’re nervous. And that’s okay. Starting off slow makes it easier for him to insert his fingers without it becoming painful.
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5. Pull off jewelry. You might remember the long fingernails thing, but don’t forget about jewelry making things more uncomfortable for you, either. To keep things enjoyable, have him ditch any ring. You might not think watches and bracelets will make much of a difference, but they could actually make things uncomfortable, depending on how deep he goes!
Sex relationships: 5 steamy ways to make fingering more comfortable for you by Dr. Emma Valasco
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