Many times, women with UK MILFS status have more confidence and have reached a point where they are more comfortable in their sexual relationships.
Lots of older women are super hot and very sexy. Many women become more attractive as they age and will crave younger men to fulfil their sexul fantasies.
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UK (AMATEUR) MILFS: THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT
Some of them are married, some of them were married,
and some of them never wanted to get married but still ended up with a kid. Either
way, MILFs used to belong to someone else and that's the quintessential drive for
men. It's all about the thrill of the chase. The fact that she's an older woman
just means you'll have to try harder. Unorthodox in all the right ways, an older
woman is the ultimate elusive target for men who want what they can't have. MILFs
also aren't prepared to give themselves up entirely, loving the fact that there
are plenty of men in the sea. You'll feel crazy confident when you make her walk
the walk of shame the next morning after stealing her from those unlucky fellows
who failed to pull her!
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FRIEDA, SOUTH EAST, SAYS
MILF means a hot, older
woman... someone who is in control, someone who knows what they want and knows how
to be satisfied. At first, it didn't sound very sexy—but when people started referring
to me as a MILF, I decided to embrace it. If that's my term, that's my market.
Frieda, South East
Amateur MILFS are just in it for the sex. They don't have a secret agenda! MILFs are awe-inspiring, sexually experienced and know exactly what to do in bed, so you're guaranteed to have great sex.
Being with a younger man will make MILFS feel more attractive. Therefore, she will respond very favourably to all that special attention. A MILF with a younger lover will think to herself: 'why wasn't it like this for me when I was his age?' It's that good!
UK MILFS feels an unrivalled high when a younger men prefers to be with her, rather than being with somebody his own age. She can be 50 plus and still feel great about it.
A younger guy will keep a MILF on her toes!
She'll wear sexy lingerie, short
skirts, revealing tops and will willingly squeeze into her high heels to pease a
young stud.
BRINLEY, MANCHESTER, SAYS
Guys like MILFs because
it shows that, even at an advanced age women still care enough to put effort into
their appearance and maintain the seductive nature that their younger counterparts
have. They have the experience, but haven't lost their looks or sex drive. We know
what we want, and what young guys want... and it's usually the same thing!
Brinley, Manchester
Young guys make more effort with their appearance and understand that style has nothing to do with comfort. A young guy has hair on his head, rather than hair growing out of his ears. And it's not grey and wispy either. Young guys smell nice (not musty) and have fresh breath, which can be unusual in men over 50!
Delight of delights, younger guys are always keen to please in bed: they want
to sexually prove themselves to their MILFS. Remember the 1967 film 'The Graduate'?
No! Well, the film tells the story of 21-year-old Benjamin Braddock, played by Dustin
Hoffman, a recent college graduate with no well-defined aim in life, who is seduced
by an older woman, Mrs. Robinson, played by Anne Bancroft.
A MILF can wear
sexy underwear, without feeling she's made too much effort.
Younger guys are open-minded, up for adventure and willing to try things they may not have done before. Scepticism isn't in a young guy's mindset because he's not been let down yet. Young guys have had less time to be hurt – and to hurt others, and they always come with less baggage: there's no ex-wife and three kids in tow.
Young guys are impressed by MILFs, as they are seen as independent, smart, confident and not needy and ask questions rather than believe they know it all; PLUS younger guys have plenty of energy and can have sex with a MILF until she can't walk.
A MILF in a relationship with a young man is an equal rather than an accessory. Young guys accept female empowerment as the norm. But, a MILF who behaves like a little girl in this relationship is likely to be considered irritating and turn her toyboy off.
JUMPING JEHOSAPHAT!
Reputation
Successfully landing a MILF will make you one hell of a badass.
It's the sign of a true man nowadays and all your mates know it. You've graduated
from your own age class and you've finally moved up in the ranks. Consider it an
expert level. It's like getting a master's degree, or becoming a Jedi. You've realised
that 'wax on, wax off' is in fact a martial arts move and now you're geared up for
'clothes on, clothes off.' Not only will it be a personal source of pride, it definitely
is a conquest.
Amateur MILFS tend to be more natural and honest in their attitude, as they haven't had years of playing games. (Chitchat is fun but playing mind games is not, right?)
A young guy acts and sees things differently when he's with a MILF to when he's with someone of his own age. That's just how it is.
JULIE, YORKSHIRE, SAYS
Not every guy is looking
for the same thing that every girl is looking for. Most young guys are NOT looking
for a wife, drama, hang-ups, baggage or a serious relationship. They are not looking
to be some girl's possession either, like lipstick. Nor is it about wanting 'a mum'
either. It's about finding a mature woman who wants some NSA fun. That's the extent
of the relationship. Julie, South Yorkshire
Both parties will get to do things they wouldn't when it's a young guy and MILF deal. When she goes clubbing she will be surrounded by good dancers rather than old shufflers.
This is a big one: Without a serious relationship in mind, both parties are more open and relaxed without the pressure of having to give any commitments. You'll just live for the day... as Scarlett O'Hara said in 'Gone With The Wind: 'Tomorrow's just another day.'
Mature MILFSin the UK will have far more fun with a young guy (come on, seeing a young guy is way more fun than watching day-time TV).
It's a turn-on to a lot of guys to have a sexually-experienced, self-confident and communicative woman who is also good-looking, takes care of herself physically, knows what she wants and doesn't wait for you to deal with her feelings, knows when to leave without being told, isn't going to unexpectedly take control the relationship with random demands, doesn't one day blame you for some lack of feeling satisfied, isn't going to try to drive a wedge between you and your friends, is fun to be with yet doesn't mope if you do something else on Friday nights, etc.
Many young girls: 'Oh no, that's too risqué, I wouldn't want to get into trouble or do something that could be considered slutty.'
Our advice is, get a MILF and gt in: Screw her, you're not getting any younger.
Let's face it, if you're a male in your 20s, chances are you're not looking for a serious relationship or to settle down and have kids. On the other hand, females in that same category are quite the opposite. They're all looking for love and attention and someone they can cling onto for life. So our advice for you young guys out there reading this would be, find yourself an older, more mature woman to wet your, Mmmm… appetite!
Now, we're not necessarily talking granny status here, but the older woman who is too young to be considered a Cougar. We've heard it all before, 30s are the new 20s. Besides, what woman doesn't want to be considered hot, especially those who feel neglected or trapped in a mundane sexless relationship?!
Just to be clear, we're not talking about the 20-year-old girl that got knocked-up at university and now calls herself a MILF to justify her stupidity. In fact, a MILF doesn't even have to be a woman with children. Our meaning of a MILF is any woman who is alluring, bright, mature and open to you know what!
Here are our top 10 reasons why you absolutely should date a MILF:
1. She's independent
Sure, every 21-year-old female on social media claims
to be 'independent' all the while working at Tesco's and living at home with her
mum and dad. A MILF is really independent, meaning she has her own things, her own
house, her own car and anything she wants, she goes out and gets it — with her own
money. MILF's don't expect a man to take care of her and pay for everything. She
may even pay for dessert if you let her.
2. She has her shit together
This woman has it going on and is financially
independent. Having confidence in her life and career makes her more desirable and
not at all clingy. Because she knows her worth and won't let any man (or boy) destroy
that. She doesn't need validation from anyone in her life decisions. Basically,
she does what she wants — and that kind of confidence is incredibly sexy!
3. She doesn't want commitment
She's been there, done that. Chances are she's
divorced or a victim of one too many shitty relationships. She's not looking for
love, she's not looking for someone to be a dad to her kids, and she's just looking
for someone she can have a good time with. Her career and family are the most important
things in her life. Having a boytoy around, will only emphasise her life. She doesn't
need a guy who will complicate things for her.
4. She doesn't want (anymore) kids
These are the 'one and done' types. They
had a kid young, most likely with a tosser who won't take responsibility. Trust
us; she does not want to go through that mess again. She's happy where she's at
and she's not looking for another baby daddy.
By now, her body is back and
looking hot and she's not about to compromise all that hard work. She's smart and
careful, so you don't have to worry about the dreaded 'You're going to be grandparents'
conversation with your parents.
5. She's classy, not trashy
MILFs ooze class in every way: how they dress,
where they live, what kind of car they drive and how the handle themselves when
it comes to consuming alcohol. You won't find MILFs fallingh over themselves and
throwing up in the street after a boozy night of partying, and they're don't do
clubbing every night either.
Nor do they run around in dresses that barely
cover their breasts or pussy zone. MILFs hold high standards and expect nothing
less from others.
6. She's not an attention-seeking slut
Let's face it; these girls nowadays
are so 'hungry' for attention, that they'll do anything for anyone who will give
them the time of day. Posting half naked photos on Instagram and Facebook vying
for the title of 'Instagram's Finest.' Their self worth is measured by the amount
of likes or comments they get on their pics so they spend hours on 'Kik' and 'Snapchat'.
A true MILF will be happy with one guy, as long as he's doing all the right things.
Her self-worth is measured by success and love, not by double taps.
7. She's nurturing
She could be mum. She's caring, loving and loyal. Not
only that, but she knows how to cook and I guarantee you her house is spotless.
Most people these days are so caught up in attention and possession that they forget
how to love. She's compassionate, caring and kind, but won't mind bitch slapping
you if you get out of hand. However she may not be your best match if you're the
type of guy with 'Mummy Issues.'
8. She's doesn't play mind- games
So don't expect to play mind-games with
her and get away with it. Whatever you are feeling, good or bad — you need to tell
her straight. She doesn't need to hear 'let's still be friends' or 'it's not you,
it's me.' This type of woman has already heard enough bollocks to fill a tanker.
Be straight up because she will always be straight up with you.
9. She has experience
In the bedroom that is. This woman is going to rock
your world like no 20 year old ever could. When you've been in a series of long-term
relationships, you have no choice but to get creative. She will school you on things
that countless hours of internet porn could never teach you. Once you've had a taste
of a real woman, no girl will ever taste the same. Not only that, but this woman
is going to prepare you for your next serious relationship, so much so your next
girlfriend may just have to send her a thank you note.
10. She knows what she wants
In life and for dinner. She is a decision maker.
Ask her where she wants to go and she'll tell you. Ask her what she wants to watch
and she already has the remote. She's in the driver's seat and she has no qualms
about telling you she doesn't like something. This type of woman is rare, so chances
are you're not going to find it easily. But when the situation presents itself,
be prepared to have the time of your life. When you do manage to pull a MILF, you'll
be the envy of all of your mates and when it's over, you'll have made a friend for
life.
Money. Money. Money
There are never 'plastic bottles' of alcohol or cans
of beer around, if you're with a MILF its wine and cocktails all the way. If she
wants something she gets it, and that includes wanting to make you happy. Let her
take you out to dinner and buy you clothes. Enjoy the life of being arm candy for
as long as you can. Sound like a dream come true so far?
One Night Stands
Last but certainly not least, cougars aren't in it for the
long run. They've been there, done that and got the t-shirt. What they want is something
new, fit, fresh and fun. They're self-sufficient and loving it. With a MILF you
don't need to worry about the future and your obligations; you don't always have
to call them or give up on your sporting passion. She'll be busy on Valentine's
Day and you never have to plan some emotional bonding time. You're getting no commitment
sex and that's it. With a MILF, you're free go to the pub with your mates whenever
you like, watch football matches during prime hours, and mosey over with a solid
buzz to just get it on and then pass out. MILF loving is all about enjoyment. No
regrets, no obligations, pure bliss. No wonder MILFS are a phenomenon.
MILFs have a brain unlike those naive silly young girls. They have experience. They can have a smart and bright conversation with you. They don't put lol in every sentence when texting you. Oh, and they don't say annoying things such as 'like' in every sentence. They know how to have passionate sex. They can teach you things. They have more unique face expressions. They have the biggest tits, nicest ass and a more experienced pussy! Those are just some of the things we can think of right now.
COUGAR
The biggest pull of a cougar is actually the fact that they've been
around the block more than a few times. They know what they want and they want you
to give it to them as soon as possible with as little inhibitions. If you're not
giving it to them correctly, they won't be afraid to let you know. We're down with
that. There's something sexy about the fact that they don't need you to tell them
how to do anything or take it easy. No need to persuade them to attempt something
new, they're definitely game.
We've all dealt with that girl who's tried
to convince us that it's her first time or she's just not ready and it's a total
drag. We don't want to squander our time in the bedroom holding back so we don't
harm someone's feelings. MILFs don't give a fuck. They're ready for whatever you're
going to throw at them, and almost dare you to try to surprise them. Challenge accepted.
MILFs also know how to please, another perk of their prowess. They've been with
men, they've even had a kid or too, so they don't need to beat around the bush.
No MILF is ashamed of the fact that sex may or may not be her forte. She's in it
for the sensation, both hers and yours.
What triggered the MILF movement?
There have been a lot of films and TV shows with hot older women. And where the mainstream branches out, the adult industry is never far behind. Plus, there are plenty of young guys out there who really had crushes on their mum's friends when they were teenagers. Some guys just like older women because women their own age are not sexually mature enough for the kind of sex they want. There again, some men simply like empowered women.
CHANTEL, DURHAM, SAYS
I remember when I was younger;
I didn't know how to please a guy properly or what to do with him. It takes time
to learn and older women have years of experience. Plus, there have always been
fantasies in porn: sexy teacher, hot secretary, a friend's hot mum etc. I have a
lot of guys who just fancy having sex with an older woman. It really is a big fetish
for many young men. Julie, South Yorkshire
Anybody who's nonchalantly browsed porn sites has almost certainly seen MILF videos at some point, listed in the midst of the innumerable niches to be had. But MILF (an acronym for 'Mum I'd Like to Fuck') is in fact one of the hottest genres in porn sought by straight guys. On mega-tube site Pornhub, it's the third-most popular category behind 'HD Porn' and 'teen.' And shockingly, the most popular search term on PornHub isn't even an explicit one, like 'blowjob' or 'threesome'; it's the familiar 'mum.'
Hot mums aren't just limited to porn aggregators, though. Adult superstores offer more than 500 MILF-themed videos, including clever titles like 'Mummy Dear Ass,' while Amazon offers more than 1,900 erotic MILF stories available for Kindle alone, such as 'Milking the MILF,' the story of a single mother who literally gets milked by a football team.
The question is: How did MILFs come to dominate men's interest in porn?
Evolutionary
psychology would suggest that men evolved to favour females who are at the height
of their productivenes. That is to say younger women. So how do psychologists describe
the pull of the MILF genre, given that sex with an older woman is less likely to
result in a man passing along his genes? What explains their massive presence in
male-targeted pornography?
We think that the reason MILFs are sexually sought-after has little, and conceivably nothing, to do with a man's view for his own mother. In fact, it probably has relatively little to do with the fact that she's a mother at all. The appeal of the MILF speaks more to men's craving for 'real women' who are self-assured, knowledgeable, and practiced when it comes to sex, as well as the promise of a jointly fulfilling sexual encounter.
Without a doubt, Hollywood has stoked the desire of the sexually experienced older woman for decades now. Since then, demand for MILF porn has only continued to increase and porn actresses who perhaps found their careers starting to flag as they grew older have seen renewed interest in their work.
So what explains men's enthralment with MILFs?
The first thought that comes
to mind may be the Oedipus Complex. Sigmund Freud's theory named for the Greek myth
about a guy who kills his father and marries his mother. Freud believed that all
boys go through a short-lived stage where they fancy their mums sexually. Most boys
ultimately get over this, he claimed, but only when they realise that their dad
will castrate them if they keep challenging for their mums affection!
Might it be, that the fascination to MILFs stems from some vague or subdued Oedipal needs among a large number of porn consumers? It's unlikely. The Oedipus complex was first proposed nearly a century ago and, since then, very little scientific support has been found for this idea.
An alternative suggestion is that, perhaps, guys see MILFs as more sexually insatiable than younger women. That theory fits with a widely-held belief that women reach a sexual 'peak' in their 30s, making them a better sexual match for younger guys with all of those rampant hormones.
One of the coolest things ever about life, is that many older women love younger guys. And when a MILF is in a relationship with a young guy, she automatically becomes more flirtatious and receptive. It's true!
We think it's finally time to let men be the gold diggers in this world. Enough of the old men and young babes, that shit is no longer hot. A MILF has fiscal security that her young lover can't even envisage. She has her own home, her own car, and ample spending money.
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