How to have good casual sex
How to have good casual sex: Having sex with no strings attached is one of the aims many men have when it comes to engaging in sex with women, but you know what? Many men believe that when it comes down to having no strings attached relationships with women it’s akin to believing in alien abductions, in other words, they don’t believe that NSA sex really exists.
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How to have good casual sex
And they are right, as there are always strings attached to sex, there’s simply no way around it. However, you can play for a situation where the strings are not all that burdensome so that it DOES feel like you are just having fun and there’s none of the commitment which always comes attached with a ‘proper’ relationship.
The notion that you can have sex without having any implications is more of a fantasy than reality unless, of course, you are having sex with a sex worker in which case the sex is more like a ‘business transaction’.
Here are the realities gentlemen, we’re talking about women, and women are human beings and they want to feel womanly and not sexually used and abused. Women are not (nor do they see themselves, rightly, as) an assortment of fleshy ‘cock holes’ of differing sizes, created for the sole purpose of allowing men to stick in their penises in pursuit of male self-gratification. Oh no.
Now, this may come as a surprise to some, but women are looking to get something out of any relationship, no matter how fleeting that relationship may be, even if it is a one night stand. Women, just like men, have expectations too, and those expectations can vary greatly depending on who she is how she sees herself and her impression of you. The environment, her personal circumstances and life-experiences to-date, as well as her past relationships, are all likely to be part of her thought process.
But what we can say is this, it really is possible for you to have a no strings attached consensual, casual sexual relationship with a woman, without being forced into signing up to all the emotional and pressure-stuff which is associated with a monogamous, committed relationship, in which everything can get really serious, way too heavy and very deep.
- First of all, you need to recognise before you make your move that she is going to want something in return. The notion that you can have sex without any kind of strings involved does not really exist. At best, you may pull a one night stand; however, there will be an ongoing relationship if you continue having sex with the same woman. That is something that you have to keep in mind, because if you treat a woman like you are just looking for a warm place to stuff your manhood to get-off, eventually she is going to deny you what you want and then you are going to be left with nothing more than a box of tissues sitting next to a screen.
- For things to work out in your favour, she will need to be a sexually liberated woman, which can be hard to find, if she isn’t then everything could be messy. Despite what you might have heard or choose to believe, women who are genuinely sexually liberated are somewhat rare to find. These are the women that you can have a really casual sexual relationship with and not have to run the risk of her emotions kicking in – this is when a female starts to develop feelings and leads to her wanting much more from your contacts. Chancing your luck of having casual sex with no strings attached with any other kind of woman is more than likely to turn out messier than you are prepared to accept.
- For casual sex to work you have to be able to handle the situation yourself. Not many men can handle having sex with a gorgeous woman and not develop feelings themselves! This is especially true when the woman is attractive and good fun to be with. Men might think they can control their emotions because they are men, but the next thing they know they are getting in deeper than they had at first planned – this can make things very complicated, depending on personal circumstances. How ‘bad’ this is, will depend on how ‘free’ you are to pursue her and whether she wants you to. When you enter into any relationship with a woman, other than a quickie or a one night stand – there are going to be some strings attached to it. Luckily, if you can handle an ongoing casual sexual relationship yourself then you CAN make it happen and have a great deal of fun too. You always have to remember that it’s never about using a woman; it’s about having an incredible experience that you can share with her.
If you are a man who sees casual sexual relationships as a selfish self-satisfying encounter, then you are setting yourself up to fail.
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