TEETERING in high heels, these 40 somethings laps up the attention they get here.
As twenty-something lads get turned on and message experienced women, the words on the lips of these cougars are “How old are you, babe?”.
And if you’re aged 18-25, then you’re in their target age-range and you’ve just become a ‘person of interest.’
For those 26 and over, sorry, love, you’re too old.
Not only do our cougars prefer young men, these MILFs believe sex is best with MALE VIRGINS.
What’s more, many 40 and 50 somethings pride themselves in being the first conquest of blokes as young as 18.
Let’s face it, their experience makes them totally irresistible. And they get a thrill knowing they will be a woman many of their lovers will
never forget, ever!
Bella says: “As long as young men (toyboys) continue to find me attractive, I’ll be game. It’s beyond flattering to be someone’s first because you automatically
become the woman they never forget.
“How many women can say that about men they’ve been with?
“And what older woman isn’t attracted to toyboys? They look better, have better bodies and they don’t run out of energy after a couple of hours.
“Being inexperienced is the icing on the cake. They’re eager to learn how to do it properly.”
Bella finds her lovers on XXX Sex Contacts where men seek “cougars” — the term for older women who like young men.
She first found virgins satisfied her needs after sleeping with a 21-year-old plasterer called Gareth, who trembled with fear during their first encounter.
Bella says: “I joined xxxsexcontacts.com and said I was an older woman with a big appetite for life and only interested in men aged between 18 and 25.
“Within a day I had about 60 messages and another 60 the day after. I couldn’t believe how many young men out there were eager to be with me.
“Thanks to xxxsexcontacts.com I met Gareth. At 21, he had never had a girlfriend and was a virgin. I thought he was joking and laughed until I realised he was
serious.
“He’d joined the site to lose his virginity and was surprised when I told him it wasn’t a problem.
“We met in a hotel and he went all-out with flowers, chocolates, and champagne. He was so nervous he was actually shaking — and was relieved when I took
control and told him what to do.
“Gareth followed my instructions so well that we ended up spending the whole night together.
“Afterwards, we stayed in touch and a few weeks later he got a girlfriend. I remember feeling smug that being with me had given him the confidence to do
that.”
Bella admits her sex life was not always so unconventional. She married her childhood sweetheart John at 22 when they were both virgins.
Bella says: “We had no idea what we were doing and were both nervous, so it was really awkward.
“Over time, we got more experienced and things did get better. Like everything else, practice makes perfect.”
But after 13 years and two kids, the marriage was in trouble.
Bella says: “I started working after being a stay-at-home mum.
“While I made new friends and started going out to clubs and bars, John was happy having the odd drink in the pub with friends.
“I’d get chatted up by fit-looking young men then come home to my husband slumped in front of the TV like an old man.
“Over time, I started feeling less and less attracted to him. Our sex life suffered to the point where we stopped having any. That left us living
together as friends. I was only 30 and that just wasn’t the life I wanted.
“We sat down and talked it through — and John admitted that he felt the same.”
They separated and just two months later Bella started seeing a co-worker called Andy. He was 21, ten years her junior.
She says: “I’d had my eye on him for a long time but I had no idea that he had been eyeing me as well.
“Being with him was completely different to being with my husband. He wasn’t very experienced but he was more than happy for me to tell him what to do
and what not to do.
“Not only was there a physical attraction, he was fun.”
They moved in together and went on to have three children.
But after nine years, Bella started to feel restless again. She says: “Once Andy hit 30, he suddenly stopped wanting to go out and said he preferred
staying at home.
“Even when he did go out, he’d get tired after just a few hours — while I’d still be raring to go.
“Finally it hit me. He’d become too old for me. If we stayed together, I’d be stuck in a rut.
“He was upset when I told him. He couldn’t understand why I would think he was too old when there was still a ten-year age difference.
“It was a question of attitude. Even though I was 40, I felt like I was 20 — and I wanted to be with men that age.
“He finally accepted the situation and agreed to move out.”
Since sleeping with Gareth, Bella has bedded countless other virgins.
She says: “Most of the men I met after him turned out to be in the same boat. They’d be nervous as soon as things moved into the bedroom.
“But they all worked hard to make sure I had a good time.
“Pretty soon I found myself being turned off by men who were experienced.”
Bella’s youngest lover was 18 — three years younger than her eldest son.
She says: “He told me he was 24 and boasted about running his own business and owning a big house. It was only after we had sex that I caught sight of his
college ID on top of the dresser and realised how young he was.
“At first, I was a bit shocked. But he was perfectly legal and I hadn’t broken any laws, so there was no reason for me to be freaked out.”
Bella’s children have no problem with their mother’s peculiar love life — although they would not be keen on her tying the knot with a teenager. She
says: “My two eldest have moved out and are living their own lives, while the younger ones have no idea. I never bring anyone home and sex happens at
the man’s place or in hotels.
“My kids have made it clear they wouldn’t be happy if I tried to present them with an 18-year-old stepfather.
“I’ve told them they have nothing to worry about because it is never going to happen.”
Perhaps surprisingly, Bella’s friends have been less accepting of her taste in partners.
But she insists virgins are too good to give up.
She says: “Many friends have been married for years to men who are their age or older. They don’t believe sex with ‘toyboys’ could be at all satisfying and
are convinced I’m being used.
“I feel toyboys are more careful and caring. They’re more willing to do the romance thing and listen to what a woman says.
“That’s doubly true for virgins.”
Star cougars and their toyboys
DEMI MOORE, 50, wed actor Ashton Kutcher, 35, in 2005. They split six years later and she dated Hard Rock Cafe heir Harry Morton, 31.
J-LO and husband Marc Anthony split in 2011. The star, 43, moved on to backing dancer Casper Smart, 18 years her junior. They are still together.
MADONNA, 54, got over her split from Brit film director Guy Ritchie by hooking model Jesus Luz, 26. She is now dating dancer Brahim Zaibat, 25.
SHARON STONE’s Basic Instinct is for younger men. After several young lovers and now 55, she is with Martin Mica, 27, after divorcing Phil
Bronstein.