Service Abuse: We generally agree that we don’t judge here, but occasionally we find it necessary to flag a Service User’s activity if it breaches our Terms of Service or our ethical code.
We make no apologies for acting quickly when any Service misuse or abuse is reported or identified. However, sometimes a Service User’s interactions fall into a grey area, i.e. they do not technically break our Terms of Service but might breach our ethics code.
Service Abuse: Wherever possible, we try to make a reasoned judgment as to whether a Service User has crossed the line (in relation to our Service Rules and Guidelines) and if so, whether it is an isolated incident, whether it is considered ‘accidental’ or whether a deliberate breach has occurred.
Examples of a serious breach would be:
- Failing to use the service responsibly and as intended (which is for adult sex text only)
- Pressuring/asking women to meet (this is not a dating or meeting site or a hook-up service)
- Including alternative contact details and/or personal identifying information (this is prohibited)
- Abusing, being disrespectful or failing to acknowledge other people’s limits (no means no)
- Failing to respect the confidential and private nature of the Service
We have no desire to restrict Service access, nor do we want to come over as being hypocritical. Thus, we’re seeking ideas for how we can be more accountable. We do not want to be a de facto dictatorship. That said, the onus is on individuals who join the Service to satisfy themselves that the Service is what they want, before using it. Anyone considering using our Service is strongly advised to read our Terms of Service and FAQ.
Service Abuse: If in doubt about what a sexting service is, ask… don’t guess!
Although some Service Users may try to strike up a meeting, this is not the purpose of the site and should not be the reason for using our Service. This is an Adult Sexting Introduction Service – we do not pretend it is anything else and nothing else beyond text messaging between consenting adults should be expected. In response to the direct question of: “Can I meet one of these women?” The simple answer is NO.
A Service User’s interactions may not technically breach our Terms of Service (or Rules and Guidelines) but if they make others anxious or their Service interactions are generally against the spirit of the site, then we believe such interactions should be flagged by us to the Service User. We don’t want to make a big deal out of this because it’s very rare, and on the odd occasion it has happened it’s proved to be 99.9 percent of the time down to a new Service User who has failed to read the rules before interacting with others.
The bottom line is this, should we believe something is wrong or inappropriate then it probably is, and we shouldn’t feel guilty about taking appropriate remedial action against the offending party.
The ultimate sanction would be to block a Service User’s number and deny them any further Service Access.
We think we have the balance right between what is private and confidential, and Service interaction restrictions. It’s worth pointing out, that no one has a legal right to read someone else’s private messages – so we are very much reliant on Service abuse or misuse being brought to our attention by those who use the Service.
Our Service provides adults in the UK the opportunity to engage in extreme (but legal) sexting – you are given the opportunity to chat, flirt and more with like-minded consenting adults and explore your deepest darkest sexual fantasies – you can send the kind of intimate messages you could never send to your wife, partner or someone who knows you. Our service is anonymous, totally private and completely confidential on every level. Please DO NOT abuse the Service or those who choose to use it.
Should you have a suggestion or comment you would like to make which you feel could improve the way the Service works, then please contact us via the contact form on our Contact page.
Thanks for enjoying our Service.
- We’re ALWAYS listening…
- Emma