Sex Techniques (How to please your man)
Hi Girls!
Hope you’re all OK…
Here’s my latest blog post and it’s all about Sex Techniques.
As regular readers of my blog posts will know, having a good sex technique requires good communication. It’s about finding out what he likes and wants sexually.
However, to have great sex you still need to try new techniques and then decide later whether or not he (and you) like the result!
Here are 4 simple, yet powerful techniques to keep a man addicted to you.
The first of my sex techniques is The Leg Cross
Many girls are not familiar with this technique. It’s magical, yet incredibly simple. The great thing about the Leg Cross is that it can be used in lots of different sex positions. All you need to do is just cross you legs by your ankles. This allows you to tightly squeeze your legs together.
This technique allows you to really feel his full length, while also providing more stimulation to your man as he thrusts in and out of you.
The great thing about the leg cross, is that you can use it in lots of different positions. You can even practice the leg cross right now if you’re sitting down. Just cross your ankles and lock them together. Then squeeze your legs together. Easy!
Second of my sex techniques is the Reverse Cowgirl + Ball Rub
Some women don’t like being on top. I can appreciate that, we are all different. But if you do like being on top, or your man likes you being on top, then this sex tip is for you. You are going to start this position with you on top of your man, straddling him in the Reverse Cowgirl position.
However you are not looking at your man. Instead he is looking at your back and you are facing away from him. When you are in the reverse cowgirl position, you can move forwards and backwards as well as up and down. You can also lean forewords or backwards to find the spot that feels best for you. This can feel really great.
To double your man’s pleasure, you can start gently massaging his balls with your fingers. Make sure to start gently at first. All you need to do is to slowly run his balls through your fingers. You can also run your fingers over his balls, very gently, almost as if you were tickling them.
Third of my sex techniques is Setting the Stage
The setting plays an important role in having great sex. While some people may not see it in the good ‘sex techniques’ category, I certainly do.
Why?
Because it acts like a multiplier for your sex life. Changing the setting opens up the door to you and your man for a huge amount of new experiences. So, you could choose a bedroom setting, which is where 80% of couples spend their entire sex life. Or you could choose pretty much any other room. Literally every single room is an opportunity. Or how about a hotel setting, or what about some outdoorsy play?
Okay, that was 3 of my most powerful sexual techniques (The Leg Cross, Reverse Cowgirl + Ball Rub and Setting the Stage) that you can use to increase the amount of pleasure both you and your partner get from your sexual roleplay scenarios.
The fourth of my sex techniques is Giving Him The Finger
This Last Tip Is A Little More ‘Out There’. Some guys may be a little freaked out by it, but… others will LOVE it!
That’s LOVE with capital letters and in bold!
A lot of girls AND guys are unaware that stimulating the male prostate gland or the ‘p-spot’ as it is sometimes known, is highly arousing to guys. Many men have said that an orgasm from a prostrate massage feels better than vaginal sex! There is even special sex toys designed specifically for stimulating the male prostate gland and they sell like hot cakes because they really work!
Finding The ‘P-Spot’
If you imagine where your G-Spot is located in your vagina, you’ll find that the P-Spot is located in a similar place inside your man’s rear end, except that it is just a little deeper. You can stimulate it by sticking a finger up there.
Warning 1: Make sure that you use lube and have short nails!
Warning 2: Your man will either love this or hate this.
Getting Down To Business: Like I just said, he will either love it or hate.
There is no middle ground. So you have a choice. You can surprise him one night, mid way through sex and slide a finger in. Or you can talk about it with
him first to see if he’s interested. Either way, when you do try it, then you’ll be glad to know that it’s actually quite simple to perform.
You just need to slide your finger up his bum. You need to fully insert your finger (about 2-3 inches) inside. At the tip of your finger, you should feel a soft patch. This is the P-Spot. Start to massage it gently with your finger.
Some Quick Tips For The P-Spot:
A ‘come hither’ motion is much more satisfying for him than rubbing it up and down. To make the ‘come hither’ motion, you need to curl the top of your finger slightly. If you made this motion with you hand in the air, it would look like you are trying to beckon someone to come over to you.
Don’t use too much pressure. You really don’t need much. The P-Spot is incredibly soft. If you use too much pressure, you could hurt him or even cut him.
More lube is ALWAYS better than less lube!
So there you have it, 4 of my favourite sex techniques. Try to incorporate these into your sex life and you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the results.
Emma V.