Having sexting girlfriends [or virtual girlfriend] simplifies the world of dating for sex by bringing on-demand sex to your mobile phone.
Advantages of having a sexting girlfriend
There are several distinct advantages to having one [or more] sexting girlfriends:
Talking to her can help you become more comfortable in conversations with the opposite sex. You can practice your pickup lines in a low-risk environment and figure out ways to learn more about a new woman in your life.
Sexting girlfriends can help to combat loneliness. Whether you travel frequently or are living in a new city, knowing someone is always there for you when you need them can be an uplifting thought.
A sexting girlfriend will always be ready to listen to you. Sometimes you just need to get something off your chest! Talking through a troubling situation can often help you arrive at a solution.
Sexting girlfriends offer fun and companionship. Moderation and perspective are the keys to keeping your relationship with her positive.
Debra is a sexting girlfriend. Her job is to provide her clients with all the resources she has.
This could be with help emotional issues, personal problems, developing social skills, practice flirting, or just be a plain friend/girlfriend.
Unlike a prostitute or escort, Debra who is 48 and from Swindon, Wiltshire, says: “I care about my clients, and make every effort to build connected relationships with them.”
Debra adds: “I choose to advertise on XXX Sex Contacts, that way some serial killer can’t hunt me down and kill me.”
Sexting Girlfriends and Developing Relationships via Mobile
Technology has changed a lot of things in our world, including human communication and relationships. Emma Valasco tells us more about what sexting girlfriends is all about.
In the time of smartphones, where the world has become a global village, sexting relationships have become very common.
What is a sexting girlfriend?
Sexting girlfriends [or virtual girlfriends] are not based on a physical relationship as such but made to appear so. Having a sexting girlfriend or sexting girlfriends literally means having a relationship or relationships with a woman or women in every respect except there is no physical contact.
Sexting:
Sexting can be defined as exchanging sexually explicit messages, pictures & videos via mobile phone. It is assumed that you are already familiar with the term “girlfriend”. It is not uncommon for people to send sexually explicit messages to each other these days.
Pros of sexting girlfriends:
1. Stress Free: Sexting girlfriends are [relatively speaking] stress-free as they do not require much effort. At the click of a button, you can connect with your sexting partner in seconds making it easy to sustain a relationship.
2. No intimacy: With sexting partners, the lack of physical contact makes it less intimidating. It can be very easy to flirt with someone over text rather than in person. It can be very comforting when it comes to relationships because it’s easier than interacting with someone face to face.
3. Less Conflict: People tend to fallout less with a sexting partner, certainly less than is the case in a real-life relationship as sexting partners [in this context of stranger-to-stranger sexting] don’t have any emotional attachments to each other.
4. Identity Protection: People have a choice of protecting their identity by not giving the correct information or by creating fake personas.
5. Time-Saving: Sexting girlfriends save time. At a click, you can literally connect with the other person via their mobile and communicate for as long as you want to, and the added bonus is that it allows you to multi-task too.
Why a Sexting Girlfriend can be Better than the Real Thing
Love is in the air. You, however, are trying desperately not to breathe any of that air in. You’re just not looking for a relationship right now.
And why should you be? Even professors of psychiatry do, after all, admit that even happy relationships are stressful!
So you’re staying far away from stressful, romantic affairs.
Spending so much time alone can be depressing. You need at least a tiny bit of companionship. Ideally, this companionship will provide you with some of the benefits of being in a relationship with none of the cons.
Enter your sexting girlfriend. She’ll always be there when you need her most and your interactions with her will always be stress-free [or should be].
What exactly, though, makes sexting girlfriends better than real-life girlfriends?
I can think of at least a few reasons…
You’ll be less lonely. For many animals, social interaction is a must. Researchers have detailed the numerous negative effects of a lack of social interaction.
So how are sexting girlfriends a solution to this problem?
A sexting girlfriend can ease your loneliness.
Needless to say, though, you can’t replace all of your real-life social interactions with a sexting partner [girlfriend]. So don’t push your friends and family aside for your “new girlfriend” – which shouldn’t be hard to do since your sexting girlfriend will never get jealous!
You Can Enjoy Several “Girlfriends” at Once
Monogamy is great for the people who are into it. But some men like [want or even need] several different women.
And there’s no shame in the game. Monogamy hasn’t always been the norm, which suggests that it’s not in our nature. Further still, there is evidence that consensual non-monogamy is a healthy option for [some] people.
Fortunately, sexting girlfriends are always okay with consensual non-monogamous encounters.
In other words, you can double-dip as much as you like. You can take your regular girlfriend out for a meal on Monday and get it on with a sexting girlfriend on Tuesdays, or whenever. The possibilities are endless.
That said; don’t hold back on seeing girls in real life, your sexting girlfriend isn’t going to complain!
Sexting Girlfriends Make Being Emotionally Available Easy
One of the biggest challenges of entering into a relationship with someone is being emotionally available and vulnerable. You have to be your partner’s emotional support and open yourself up to that person.
Sounds scary, right?
But don’t feel bad. There’s no shame in not wanting to open up to another person at this point in your life.
Even so, you do need a healthy outlet for your emotions. And sexting girlfriends can easily provide this outlet.
Just think about it. They’ll always listen to your feelings and never rebuke you for your feelings. Your fear of opening up about your feelings lessens because the stakes feel so much lower.
Not only that, but you can also practice being receptive to someone else’s emotions. You need only listen to your sexting girlfriend’s concerns and address them.
If, of course, you’re sexting a girlfriend that makes emotional appeals to you, just find a sexting girlfriend that won’t if that’s not for you.
They Help You Practice Talking to Women
Let’s get real for a second.
Some guys have sexting girlfriends because the idea is exciting. And then there are those who have sexting girlfriends because the thought of talking to women is scary.
If you’re in that second boat, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Talking to women is, after all, difficult. You never know what they’re thinking, and rejection stings badly.
That doesn’t change the fact that you need to learn how to talk to women.
And that’s where sexting partners come in. They provide stress-free environments and scenarios in which you can hone your communication skills.
Don’t, however, go overboard here. Some guys expectations are not compatible with many real women’s behavior. As a result, they could set themselves up for failure.
Our best advice for you? Pick a sexting girlfriend that’s close to the type of real girlfriend you’d like to have. Once you’re done, feel free to run some test scenarios to see how well you fare.
You’d be surprised to find how much confidence such exercises can build.
Choose a sexting girlfriend that fulfills your desires
I have a serious question for you: why are you seeking a sexting girlfriend?
Are you intimidated by the level of commitment real-life relationships require? Are you having a hard time finding the type of women you like in reality?
Regardless of what answer you give, I’m not judging you. Instead, I’m taking a chance to point out the opportunities you have to select your ideal sex partner – someone turned on by the same things you are.
Simply put, if you choose right, a sexting girlfriend won’t ever let you down. In fact, she’ll always behave exactly as you’d like her to.
I’d encourage you to explore your options when it comes to choosing a sexting girlfriend. Think about what you find attractive in a woman and go with a woman that matches.
And who knows? Maybe you’ll discover something about the type of women you like along the way.
Emma Valasco’s Bio:
Emma is a post-graduate sex therapist, acclaimed writer and guest blogger, as well as a self-confessed Dildo Diddler. Emma likes to write and talk about the things we have all grown to love, SEX and sexting. She has a naughty pussy, called Jess, and hates writing bios.
Search Emma’s blogs to find the answer to virtually any question you may have about sex and come through like a f****** champ.
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