3 easy ways to turn your partner on

3 easy ways to turn your partner on.

In order to keep things really fresh, you have to switch up the routine.

When trying to turn your partner on it isn’t all about wearing sexy lingerie or grabbing their stuff. You can turn them on without doing anything overtly sexual. It can add a layer of sexiness when there isn’t a clear “sex on the brain” theme.

Below are awesome ways to turn your partner on without even hitting the sheets.

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1. Being flirtatious. Just because you’ve been together since forever doesn’t mean flirting is off the table. You should be flirting more. You want to relive those hot sparks from the early days of your relationship. Don’t be afraid to get creative. Give your partner the “sexy eyes” from across the room. Lick your lips. Tell her how gorgeous she looks in that new dress. Run a hand down her lower back. Put a hand in the back pocket of his jeans. Say stuff like you can’t wait for him to get home and strip you.

2. There should be time to make out. When we get too busy and stressed, we often forget about the smaller, sweet nothings. When you kiss your partner, your brain releases dopamine and oxytocin, the brain’s feel-good and bonding chemicals. It makes you feel close to your partner. Don’t limit kissing to a peck before work and one before bed. Kissing doesn’t need to lead to sex, but we won’t blame you if you wind up getting some. It’s a big turn on.

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3. Set the mood. If you want to turn your partner on, set the mood. A messy place will not do it. Clean up, dim the lights, and put on some mood music. If you want to go a step further, make a home-cooked dinner and buy a bottle of wine. Setting up a sexy, relaxing space will up the game. If you put in the effort, you’ll get results.

*Cited Source: Psychology Today

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