Welcome to our UK swingers’ page.
Introduction: XxxSexContacts.com enables broadminded adults to contact each other quickly and discreetly.
Swinger & Swingers is the title of this article. It just may be of interest to you if you’re a swinger or someone interested in the swinging lifestyle. We also have a blog on Swinging Tips (for men) and a blog in which Swingers & Doggers Reveal Their Sex Fantasies as well as Threesomes: A Girls Guide.
Our secure platform allows men and women interested in swinging or attending swinging parties to make instant contact with others who are already part of the UK swing lifestyle.
If you’re a UK swinger or the thought of attending sex parties floats your boat, then you’ve come to the right place. You can send private messages and exchange pics with other people in the UK who are into swinging, utilising mobile-first technology. All it takes is a few clicks to find your perfect match. (No monthly subscription or registration required).
To guarantee your anonymity contact each way is via our secure messaging platform which cloaks mobile numbers to keep them hidden from whoever you may decide to get in touch with.
Very soon you could be part of our warm and friendly community of people who all share a common interest in sex generally and swinging and the swing lifestyle in particular. Please take a moment to see how quick and easy it is to contact fabulous singles and married swingers here.
More features have been added, pages updated and the site as a whole improved to make the user experience even better. Our site is fully responsive, as defined by Google; this means that you can access all content quickly and easily across all platforms using any device you prefer i.e. mobile, tablet, laptop or desktop.
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The expression swingers is a somewhat generic description, so please bear in mind that the men and women who use this service come in all shapes and sizes, and from all walks of life; some swing on a regular basis, some only swing now and again and some are curious about dipping their toe into the secretive world of swinging. Everyone has to begin somewhere and will have experienced a variety of emotions, some of which you may be going through now. It’s worth saying that whatever is going through your mind right now, there are lots of others in the same situation.
This is the opportunity for you to be yourself and discuss and indulge in your sex fantasies, kinks and lifestyle preferences without fear of embarrassment, safe in the knowledge that everyone you meet here has made the same choice.
If you’re new here, the best way to find out if a swinging lifestyle is for you is to be honest and open with yourself and with others. And if you’re in a committed relationship already, you should think how your wife, partner or girlfriend would feel if they knew you are using this site.
When you’re ready to make contact with someone, you should be prepared to get to know them. Avoid being too pushy as this is likely to undermine your integrity and make the other person suspicious of your motives. Think about the message you write, it’s your way of promoting yourself and coming over in a favourable light. Whoever you choose to contact here will already have been independently verified as a genuine person aged 18 or over and in the UK.
The number of men and women using our service has soared since the site was launched, however we remain loyal to our principles which are:
Safety and Discretion
We aim to provide a personal and supportive environment for like-minded adults who respect the choices of others.
For safety, we encourage you not to disclose any personal information which can identify who you are, where you work or where you live to anyone you don’t know. Although we take steps to protect our users’ anonymity we do not carry out any formal checks on those who use the service and therefore can’t guarantee that anyone is who they claim to be.
We hope you have lots of fun. Please contact us should you have a question or query.
Here goes…
What exactly is swinging?
Swinging is a generic term which applies to those involved in the swing lifestyle and can include people who actively engage in wife, husband or partner swapping or sharing. Sex, not love is what swinging [parties] are about. It can also involve singles, as well as those in a committed relationship, who embrace the swing lifestyle as a recreational or social activity, subject to finding willing partners, of course.
Basically, swinging is a type of non-monogamy which means those involved in the swing lifestyle will almost certainly be in an open relationship.
Why might someone choose a swinging lifestyle?
For some, a swing lifestyle works because it almost certainly broadens sexual horizons by adding variety to an otherwise mundane one-on-one sex life. Let’s face it, what better way to learn about what works and what doesn’t than to play around with multiple sex partners? What we’re talking about here is an increase in both the quantity and quality of sex; however you rack it, that’s the bottom line.
Also, swinging with different partners can satisfy sexual curiosity, whilst for others, it can strengthen an otherwise sexually stale relationship. It’s true. However, if you’re in a committed monogamous relationship and therefore not into sharing your partner with someone else, attending sex parties or going to orgies, then this view will be hard to take in. How can sharing your wife or husband with someone else for the sole purpose of sex be seen by anyone as a healthy thing to do, let alone strengthen a relationship? Well, for some couples getting into full-swing can save their marriage.
Do you agree or disagree?
Every couple would be happier if they went to SEX PARTIES for hook-ups with strangers because the key to a happy and healthy marriage is an open relationship?
Clearly, plenty of people would profoundly disagree with that statement as they are in the camp of those that believe having sex with someone who isn’t their married partner would be a destructive act that would lead straight to a divorce court.
However, the enlightened folks that fully embrace a swing lifestyle would no doubt claim those raunchy swingers’ parties help couples experiment and hat monogamy is simply a lie sold to society.
Swinging parties are not necessarily what mainstream people might imagine them to be. For instance, properly organised swinging parties are not some kind of free for all banging event. They are invitation-only affairs that can involve tantric touching to unleash sexual desire, and in many cases, the orgy host has organised a meal for the attendees with a phallic theme.
Although swingers’ parties can vary greatly in format and detail, a themed event for example, they can also vary as to where the fun will take place, i.e. a private house, swanky manor or city hotel. But one thing that usually applies to all these events is that individuals and couples will be divided into two groups, those who like to dominate and those who prefer to be submissive. This tends to make it easier for people to hook up with those who fit their particular preference on the dom/subscale.
What happens at these swingers’ parties?
It can vary, but it might go something like this. Everyone strips down to his or her underwear, guests then start to tease their partners with blindfolds, oils, tantric exercises, and a range of sensual foods such as chocolate. Once you’re ready to take things to the next level, simply disappear off to a hidden candlelit and cushioned area to have sex.
Some orgy hosts will even arrange for male and female dancers to be there to help guests get in the mood. Porn videos, sweet-smelling candles, and mood lighting can all be in the mix to help everyone to unwind.
Swingers’ parties and sex orgies:
To be invited to a swingers’ only party or a private sex orgy, you should expect to be vetted by the host who will want to know what you look like and your circumstances. Oh yes, and you are almost certainly going to be asked about the reasons behind why you want to attend.
Generally, single women are invited, as well as couples, less so single men. Ideally, there will be a 70% to 30% ratio of women to men so it doesn’t become a sausage fest.
What’s the most popular?
This is an easy one. Most couples want a threesome with another woman. It tends to stop infidelity if you explore your desires together; furthermore, the fear that your partner is cheating on you is removed. If you think about it, why on earth would someone in an open relationship think of having an affair? They wouldn’t.
The image of sex with strangers being sleazy and dirty is old hat. It’s worth bearing in mind that no one owns anybody else; we certainly don’t own our partners.
The numbers of people in the UK today, who are into the swing lifestyle, actively attend swinging parties and private sex orgies might be a lot higher than you might imagine.
Happy Swinging!