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FETISH, EXPLAINED
There are countless kinds of BBW admirers. However, not all BBW admires are attracted
to the notion of being squashed! Some men simply prefer bigger ladies, others are
into hardcore pornography and like to watch large women having sex.
Men
who prefer BBW's can be categorised into one of a number of sub-fetishes. That said,
one thing is certain and it's this: for a BBW lover, being in the company of a big
woman, in any capacity, is their ultimate desire.
PAM, BURNLEY, SAYS
Standing 6' in heels, my well-formed,
plentiful derrière slopes precipitously in the direction of my sculpted waist from
my amazingly strong legs. The term glorious BBW should come to mind, as you picture
how my long limbs and soft flesh will encase you.
Delightful and amusing,
everything I do is infused with a mischievous 'joie du vivre'. Expect our pillow
talk to be beset with enriching quips, timely remarks and revelations of our deepest
desires. Some desires run deeper and darker than others and my craving for Kink
is immense, so don't be fearful to express yourself.
Pam, BBW. Click to go to my page.
The reasons why men, some at least, prefer a BBW can be broad and varied. So,
let's have a look at some of the reasons why this group of men have a desire of
larger ladies.
They feel 'soft, warm and cuddly', according to BBW lovers
Many men like
and indeed even prefer larger women, because they feel soft, warm and cuddly.
They usually have big bums and huge tits, according to BBW lovers
A lot of
men like women with large breasts and a big ass. When it comes to BBW fans, there's
no question that they like their women with XXXL curves! BBW lovers are looking
for breasts big enough to lose their faces in and asses they can 'pound all night
long'; there's 'more cushion for the pushing', as they say. Yes, when it comes ass
and tits, bigger is always better for BBW lovers.
KELLY, LINCOLN, SAYS
Hi guys, I'm Kelly 42 and
I'm 5ft 5in from Lincolnshire. I'm a curvy lady with a big round smack-able bottom,
all natural breasts, black hair and brown eyes. My thing is seduction and erotic
fuelled pleasures. If you are looking for a sexy, curvaceous, lingerie loving BBW
with large, gorgeous and genuine boobs, I'm here. I'm a true genuine plus-size!
Unlike some, I have no need to fib! Regardless of your preference or type of fantasy
I cater to a variety of tastes. More than just a BBW - I'm the real deal. You will
find me devastatingly charming and beguilingly unique. A delectable seductress with
sophisticated kinks, captivating eyes and a flawless complexion.
Kelly, BBW. Click to my page.
Big, round bellies, according to BBW lovers
Some men are just attracted to
women's breasts, feet, hairy arm pits (or whatever), while others can't get enough
of women who have big bellies. Whether it's the curves or the soft skin (due to
being so stretched) there is just something highly erotic about women with large
bellies. There's a story about a man whose wife gives him 'belly wanks', supposedly
even more satisfying than a tit wank. She engulfs his cock in her flabby belly and
fucks it until he blows his load into her bellybutton!
Goodbye inhibitions, according to BBW lovers
It's true that women can be
intimidating, and stereotypically 'smoking hot' women even more so. Some men simply
wouldn't want a night with a Playboy model type, because it would be terrifying.
When a man is with a chubby woman, he is likely to feel more comfortable, relaxed
and less worried about any body and personal insecurities he may have about himself.
If the guy is relaxed and comfortable when he's naked with a women, he can really
let go and have a better sexual experience.
BRENDAN, SUFFOLK, SAYS
Personally, never cared
much for toothpick-bodies like those 'Victoria Secret' likes to push into my eyes.
Actually, there are fewer things that disinterest me more than seeing spinal bumps
or ribcage lines on a female body. Audentes fortuna juvat. Brendan
Thin just doesn't do it for them, according to BBW lovers
For men with a
fat fetish, thin or skinny women aren't seen as desirable; the sight of a woman's
ribcage or collar bone protruding through the skin is an enormous turn off. These
men prefer 'meat on the bones' to grab hold of. They couldn't think of anything
less tempting than a skinny woman.
Also, for many BBW lovers, bigger women
are better in bed.
With any luck, you're now starting to appreciate why some men are more attracted
to BBW's, maybe you're one of them already, or you're considering trying a super-sized
woman yourself?
OK, let's take a look at some of the sub-categories of this the BBW fetish:
Squashing (dominance)
Squashing is a fetish that involves a BBW crushing
her partner by her weight. Variations can include face sitting, face smothering
with her tits, high heel trampling and big belly squashing.
DEE, BRISTOL, SAYS
My body is body is fantastically
firm, curvy and responsive: an absolute delight for the true connoisseur of curves!
Dee, BBW. Click to go to my page.
Often the man will withstand the pressure for as long as he possibly can, then
signal for her to get off before he is crushed (or suffocated) by the weight of
her body.
To some men, the suggestion of being squashed, smothered or trampled on by a
BBW really causes a stir 'down below'. In fact, some men are prepared to travel
a considerable distance to be sat on and dominated by a BBW.
For the most part, a BBW may be more grateful and generous sexually than a 'thin
woman' because many BBW's have very low self-worth. When a man that really likes
them and accepts them, they become more relaxed and enjoy sex more. Thin women are
not usually as appreciative or as giving as BBW's when they have sex, because they
have a higher sense of worth and tend to take sex for granted. According to some
BBW lovers.
ANON, BERKSHIRE, SAYS
The question posed is this:
Do 'chubby chasers' or 'BBWs' actually exist? The term 'chubby chasers' is a creation
by the media and feminists, as is the idea of a 'Big Beautiful Woman.' Women once
wrote fiction in books. Now they do it in magazines and online to reframe the truth.
Men who are with fat women are merely 'settling for that'. Men do not chase
after fat women. And the notion that a fat or obese woman remains beautiful is a
complete anomaly. So, both terms i.e. 'chubby chasers' and 'BBW' are a manipulation
of the English language of an Orwellian magnitude. When we're confronted with either
of these terms, we should reframe them as fiction, and certainly not engage as if
they were reflecting what is true. Anon, Berkshire
These days, its most generally accepted that women with slim, slender and thin
figures attract the most awareness from men. Just take a look at any women's magazines
and you'll see exactly what we're talking about. Nevertheless, there are still a
large number of men who prefer sex with BBW's, although some may not admit it, whilst
others may even deny it.
Why do so many black men like BBW's?
It's a combination of the western idea of beauty and the natural black man's
attraction for women with meat on their bodies. Some black men genuinely prefer
thinner, slimmer women but most like women with some meat.
The entire world
has been force-fed the western ideology that 'thin is feminine', thus beautiful
thin girls end up being the 'trophies' in the eyes of easily swayed men. But for
many black men, BBW's are naturally seen as the real deal. This is why some black
men who marry women that are no bigger than a twig, usually end up cheating with
a woman who is voluptuous.
ROXY, MUSSELBURGH, SAYS
Sensual domination is
my forte, but I am also a natural switch: I have a sweet vanilla half, and a darker
kinkier side. E-cup tits and a big round bottom perfect for spanking, grabbing,
kissing or what ever pleases you, in addition to all the other things you only ever
fantasied about with a girl like me! Roxy, BBW. Click
to go to my page.
Our tips for any BBW
- Never be apologetic for your weight.
- Have confidence in your appearance.
- Compare yourself to positive role models.
- Use positive terms to describe
yourself.
- Deter insults by expecting respect.
Remain positive
- There's more of you to love.
- You are built for comfort,
not for speed.
- You offer more cushion for the pushin'.
- With you there's
more for hoim to hold onto.
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Let's venture into the super-sized world of BBW's and the men who absolutely
love them.
What do we mean be BBW?
Well, it is a woman who is stout, fat, large, heavy,
fluffy, full-figured, plus-sized, voluptuous, curvy, plump, buxom or extra-large.
Any woman who has a UK dress-size of 16 and over is considered a BBW.
VICKY, CROYDON, LONDON UK SAYS
If you're searching
for an experience which goes far beyond the mundane, which pushes the boundaries
of decadence and pleasure, then you should contact me. I have a perfectly generous
hourglass figure – natural FF-cup breasts and an incredibly full, curvaceous bottom,
emphasised by my slim waist. Vicky, BBW. Click
to go to my page.
Back to why are men being attracted to this type of women?
There are several
reasons which could go some way to explaining the phenomenon, as previously mentioned.
They are cheerful and positive, according to BBW lovers
Most BBW's appear
happy and jolly. This might be down to them being able to laugh at themselves. Slim
women, on the other hand, tend to be more serious so they're not seen as being as
much fun in the sack.
A further reason often given by men for preferring BBW's, is that they are perceived
as being far easier to get close to, whereas slim women are almost always suspicious
when approached by a man.
Thay are cuddlesome and more huggable, according to BBW lovers
Many men say
they would rather go for fuller figured women than women who are thin, gangly or
lanky because they are viewed as being too 'fragile'.
ADELE, MANCHESTER, SAYS
Full figured woman with
natural curves in all the right places and they are a delight to touch. A rubenesque
BBW with mousey blonde hair, grey eyes and soft kissable lips and if that's not
enough I have a massive pair of FF boobs. I have the classic 'girl next door' look
and I'm full of sexual mischief just waiting for you to come and play. I've a captivating
smile and I ooze sexuality. I give you what every man desires and needs in a lady
without the hassles or demands of an everyday relationship. I'll captivate and tantalise
all your senses. I genuinely adore teasing and pleasing, but I can be a downright
dirty and kinky lady when the mood takes me. Adele,
BBW. Click to go to my page.
They are super-hot, according to BBW lovers
Some men actually find plus-sized
women 'very hot and super-sexy' due to their positive attitude. BBW women tend to
admire their looks, exude self-esteem to the point some men find them incredibly
alluring. It has been said, that one of the 'rules of attraction' is to have the
right attitude. This is why these women can attract male admirers, as they effectively
'give off' a pride in themselves, projecting the right attitude and are honest about
their appearance.
They are full of confidence, according to BBW lovers
BBW women are seen by
their fans as being full of confidence, because they can hold themselves very well,
and may even flaunt their voluptuous figures. These women are proud of themselves
and they enjoy life regardless of what other people may think of them.
Having
a large body is not the only benefit these women offer. Usually, skinny girls are
relying on superficial attractiveness which they hope will appeal to men and keep
them interested in them. However, as soon as men start to get to know them, they
can quickly work out that skinny women offer little beyond appearance.
KEVIN, STOCKPORT, SAYS
I dip into in the plump
market now and then... AND, I agree with what those have said about low self-esteem
issues playing a part. But I've banged BBW's for different reasons. Some because
I DID have low self-worth. Other times it was because I just wanted to fuck them.
What I think we can all agree with, is the need for honest self-evaluation, and
that low self-confidence around women can creep into other unrelated areas of your
life. Kevin, Stockport
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DAVE, EASTBOURNE, SAYS
What is the psychology
of chubby chasers? Essentially, there are a lot of thirsty guys out there who when
they go out, get drunk and just fuck anything that moves. That said, I also agree
with other points made here about guys having self worth issues, tbh this is a part
of my game I need to improve. Most of the girls I shag are below me, but that's
just my opinion. Dave, Eastbourne
WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT BBW's?
RICKY, CUMBRIA, SAYS
That's easy. Everything!
Their big fat boobs, large rounded bottoms, thick thighs and bouncy bellies. BBW's
move, jiggle, wobble and shake. They're a royal feast for the eyes and an overload
of the visual senses. And everyone knows guys are very easily visually stimulated.
A chubby woman with big breasts a nice face and a good hip to waist ratio is really
attractive to me. Ricky, Cumbria
IAN, NORTH LONDON, SAYS
Let's see: EVERYTHING.
If,like me, you prefer your ladies large and curvy then a BBW is your paradise.
All their curves are delicious. It's like the best pudding ever created, you just
want to dive in and eat it all up. For me, sex with a BBW feels so incredible, so
warm and soft with a feeling of fullness. There's so much WOMAN to kiss and lick.
BBWs are voluptuous, sensuous and womanly. Frankly, there's nothing better and there
will never be anything better, IMHO. BTW. I like the fact that all BBWs appear different
in some way. And let's face it there are only so many ways that bones can look.
Ian, North London
GARETH, CARDIFF, SAYS
I suppose speaking from
my view. It may have something to do with the illusion of comfort; this is how I
explain my BBW obsession to myself anyway. Plus-size women feel soft and have a
more gentle touch about them. I particularly like the pillowish feel, their all
consuming soft hugs and thick thighs. That's how I'd explain it for me. Gareth,
Cardiff
JOHN, KENT, SAYS
I don't know? Reaction against
social conditioning maybe? Why are gay guys gay? Why do a number of guys like small
tits and a figure reminiscent a prepubescent child? It's just diverse attractions.
Different strokes for different folks I guess. For men, attraction is primarily
a physical thing. I'd say, most guys like women with large hips, big bust, rounded
bum and an hourglass figure. Guys who are attracted to really obese woman, I don't
get at all. But as someone somewhere once said: You can be a human duffle bag and
someone will still find you attractive. John, Kent
STEVE, NEWCASTLE, SAYS
I married a gorgeous blonde
BBW and she gives me the best sex I've ever had. Now we have 2 kids and I still
can't get enough of my lovely BBW lady. We've had some wild sex sessions too and
the sex still gets pretty kinky at times. I get the kind of sex that some men can
only dream of. Steve, Newcastle
RAY, SALFORD, SAYS
I've had countless breathtaking
experiences with larger ladies and have loved every one of them. None have been
dull or ordinary, it's always been very exciting. I especially love it when they
climb on top and ride me cowboy-style. I love it when their big bellies flop up
and down on mine. That is fantastically wonderfully hot. Ray, Salford
NILA, LONDON, SAYS
It's not straightforward being
a BBW in our fat-phobic society. In spite of the facts that thin doesn't equal healthy
and that beauty comes in all sizes, the media continues to enforce an artificial
standard of beauty and thinness on women, causing them to suffer embarrassment towards
their natural bodies. It's so bad these days that many girls feel ashamed and can't
even enjoy themselves in the bedroom. But I'm not one of them!
Nila, BBW. Click to go to my page.
THIS IS UNFORGIVABLE
Every woman has the right to feel secure in her own body. So, below are some
tips we've put together to help plus-size ladies get the most out of their sex lives.
1. Stop stressing about how you look
A lot of big women become apprehensive
when it's time to get naked and try to hide their beautiful bodies by turning off
the lights and hiding beneath the duvet. Stop doing this, and learn to show-off
your flesh. Take pleasure in your surging belly rolls, your gapless thunder thighs
and your jiggling jowls. When it's time to fuck, crank the lights up to maximum
and show off your stuff without embarrassment or blame.
If he isn't a bigoted
prick, seeing your fat in all its splendour will make him love you even more. This
extends to when you're making love as well. Don't be frightened to let him grab
and play with your rolls and be sure to play with his (if he's a BHM). It's also
great fun for him to spank your rolls as well. Just let your thoughts run wild!
2. Encourage him to go down on you
A lot of guys don't like eating out plus-size
women. If your man is like that, consider dumping him. However, if he's agreeable,
you can get him to eat your pussy by turning it into a game! The next time you have
sex, smear some cream on your vulva and invite him to lick it off. Not only will
this make it fun for him to go down on you, who doesn't love cream? It'll feel incredible
for you.
You can also replace cream with honey or chocolate if that works
better for him. What's even better, your boyfriend can also smear cream or chocolate
on his penis and balls to make blowjobs all the more mouth-watering!
3. Help him out if he's lost
There's nothing more awkward than for a guy
to confuse your vagina for your crotch groove, stick his cock in and pump until
he cums. No one knows your body like you do, so if he's having difficulty discovering
your tunnel of love, direct his cock to where it should be.
4. If you're having trouble feeling him, get a cock extender
If your partner
is a BHM, he may have trouble getting and maintaining an erection due to constricted
blood flow. Even if he does get hard, you may have difficulty feeling him due to
his FUPA absorbing much of his penis length and, or, your own size. You can try
pumping his cock with your hands, but you'll wear yourself out if you have to keep
tugging him.
If you're having trouble in this department, get your man a
penis extender. This isn't surgery or a magic pill; it's a physical object he can
slip over his cock to make it longer. Using a dick extender, your man can hit you
in places that you've never been touched before. Additionally, if he has issues
with slipping out when you're in doggy-style, a penis extender will make it easier
for him to stay inside you.
There's another benefit of cock extenders: they
can help protect a man from penis bends. It's a sad fact, but when you ride your
boyfriend in cowgirl position, there's a risk of bending or breaking his cock from
the total awesomeness of your thickness. With a silicone sleeve over his penis,
you have insurance against an embarrassing trip to hospital.
5. Swap positions to avoid getting tired
Since human biology is fat-phobic,
BBWs and BHMs are in danger of being winded when they have sex. There's nothing
more annoying than your partner getting stopped mid-flow while he's pounding you
doggy-style, or having your thighs start to burn while you're riding him. As a result,
you should change positions every couple of minutes or so just to avoid getting
totally worn out. If the two of you still haven't cum but need a break, try mutually
masturbating each other while you catch your breath. There's nothing sexier than
two blissfully loving plus-size folks rubbing each others' engorged genitals.
6. Beware being choked
One of the numerous benefits of being a plump bitch
is having a massive rack! Unfortunately, when you're in the missionary position
- if your man tries to put your ankles over his shoulders, the pressure may cause
your tits to choke off your trachea! No joke.
We're fairly sure you don't
want to be asphyxiated by your own breast fat. For support, position a pillow beneath
your back or bottom when you have sex missionary style. Using a pillow will also
assist if your stomach's making it tricky for him to infiltrate your pussy. Just
be sure to wash the pillow when you're done: skid marks are not desirable on bedding!
7. If you're into taking it up the bum, have an enema FIRST
Speaking of skid
marks, anal sex presents a further hazard for the BBW. Because your diabesity requires
you to have a diet high in sugar and processed foods, your poop highway will have
the reliability of a riverbank after the snow starts to melt. To void emptying your
bowels over the duvet, give yourself an enema to drain your shit-pipe before your
partner starts to investigate your anal cannel. It's just a really smart thing to
do.
8. If you're a super-sized BBW, fuck on the floor
Beds are costly, and all
that hot, steamy sex can put excessive stress on the frame. To keep it from snapping
like a twig, consider having sex on the floor instead. Lay down some blankets and
pillows in advance so you can be comfy. You should try having sex on the couch cowgirl-style,
which will allow you to keep one leg on the floor. This will free-up your partner
so they don't need to support your weight.
And keep in mind: more than anything
else have fun! As a woman, no one has the right to make you feel ashamed of the
body you were born with. With a bit of chemistry and these tips, you too can have
a very rewarding sex life.
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