Horny grannies want to try all the sexual things they've never experienced, before
it's too late. Whether or not they admit it, they know they're going to dry up at
some point and the last thing they want is regret.
If you start flirting with a sexy senior, why not ask her what her fantasies
are or what she's always wanted to try in bed?
Cougars can give you the best sex of your life, if you are smart enough to let
them. All you need to do is treat her with respect (out of the bedroom), make sure
that you are honest and truthful and never pressure her like a dependent child and
you should have very eventful experiences...
MALCOLM, WEST MIDLANDS, SAYS
My current girlfriend
is the same age as me and she's great. But I still close my eyes and fantasise being
with a much older lady who is demanding. I'm sure my fantasy is probably a little
better than reality, still I'd love to have sex with a 65-75 lady right now.
Malcolm, 43, West Midlands
And XXX Sex Contacts is the best place to find sexy grannies looking for young
studs for NSA fun.
Right, it's time to get to the heart of the matter; the real crux of it if you
like? You know the stuff you do in bed with younger women? Well you can't get away
with that kind of basic sex stuff with a mature woman. It simply won't stir her.
She's had her fill of faking orgasms and making suitable noises just to make a man
She's at that point in her life where she wants to get off and immature fumbling
and fondling just won't cut it for her these days. And, if you can't respond to
her needs, she knows that there's plenty of other young willing guys waiting in
line to do the job for you if you happen to come up short.
The Body Language
Her body language, mercifully, will give the game away
much of the time. If there's nothing happening, it probably means she doesn't like
what you're currently doing to her, so you will need to switch it up a few gears.
If you can't stir a response from her body, you're never going to be able to make
MADGE, BURTON-ON-TRENT, SAYS
Well guys, I'm not
sure I would want you to call granny. It's hardly flattering is it? I consciously
choose to boycott that term. Sorry if that makes me a party-pooper here. Mature
ladies trying to cope with an older body, in spite of having a healthy sex-drive,
are not helped by being labelled a granny. If you really need a label try 'Cougar',
it works better. Madge, 67, Burton on Trent
If she makes little groaning noises, or a tiny noise escapes her throat, you
can take it to mean she's enjoying what you are doing. Grabbing the sheets with
clenched fists, knees-trembling, arched back and pointing her toes are all extremely
encouraging signs that you're hitting the spot and turning her on.
If you're not getting these reactions from her chances are she won't cum, and
if you can't make her cum she can easily find someone else who will be more than
willing to try. Horny cougars have no shortage of younger men wanting NSA fun with
Foreplay is the ideal situation for finding out what she likes in
the bedroom. If her back arches each time you touch one of her nipples, play with
her nipples even more. If she breaks out in goosebumps when you gently kiss and
caress her neck you should take note and do it all the more, and combine kissing
and carressing with some nipple play.
It shouldn't be too difficult to give her pleasure, as long as you listen to
her body and concentrate on those areas where you see positive reactions.
LEN, DUNDEE, SAYS
Great article. I'm 43 and have
been married twice to women younger than me. Now I'm with a woman 15 years my senior.
Our relationship is exceptionally good and the most fulfilling relationship I've
ever had and not just the sex, everything. Len, Dundee
These are all obvious things you ought to be doing in the bedroom anyway, but
with younger more inexperienced women you might get away with simply jumping straight
in to their honey pot. The older woman won't stand for that at all. She's a horny
granny right now, and she wants to achieve a climax just like you do. It's give
and take with cougars – it is a sharing of the experience and mutual sexual gratification.
Take it from us, when we say that having a cougar relationship is no one-sided affair.
It ALWAYS cuts both ways with older and more sexually experienced women.
If you're really struggling to reach the end game, you should ask her to show
you what she likes? She'll love your thoughtfullness, and you'll probably get a
very educational and highly erotic demonstration too. You'd be surprised how sexually
expressive an older women can be.
You can ask her questions, but don't ask too many as you don't
want it to come across like she is being sexually interrogated -unless that's part
of the game play. Pupil and headteacher role play scenarios spring to mind. If this
is the case crack on:
Do you like that?
How does this feel?
where you want me to put my hands.
RICHARD, LONDON, SAYS
Hi, your article brought
back many fond memories for me. The first time I had sex with an older woman she
took the lead over me. I remember being so exciting I thought I was going to burst.
I'm 67 now and thinking about her is very exciting still. Richard, London
In a power play situation these sorts of questions have the potential to make
her go weak at the knees. Even if you don't get things just right, you'll probably
earn some brownie points for at least trying to figure out what she wants. To a
mature cougar you will look trainable, if you show willingness to learn, and this
could save you from being kicked into touch.
When a Cougar warms to your approaches it's an indication that some hot sexy
stuff is about to happen. Do you want to chat? That doesn't necessarily mean that's
all she's in for. It could mean she hopes you'll make a move on her.
Surely you know that when you hear 'let's chat' it often means 'let's see where
If you've had a great time with a granny, exchanging flirty messages, laughing
and enjoying a bit of sexual banter, and she opens up about her sex wish list, you'd
better be prepared to make your move. If not, you're just wasting a great opportunity
and why would you want to do that? The whole idea with these horny grannies is to
see how well you get on with each other and be ready to ratchet things up a tad.
PAUL, PORTSMOUTH, SAYS
I will be 38 years old
soon, and have been attracted to older women all of my adult life. I never acted
on this attraction until I became single in 2015. She was a 60 something lady then
and our sex was GREAT! We had a secret relationship for four months (she was married)
before I had to relocate for work. I'm now married to a woman three years younger
than me and although we are very much in love with each over, I still have the urge
to have sex with a mature cougar. Paul, Portsmouth
These mature women want more than just to pass away the time of day with idle
chat. Metaphorically speaking if you aren't lightly brushing her hair from her face
or touching her arm as you chat, you're not doing a very good job of flirting. It's
only a small step from flirting to copping a feel and a full blown virtual affair.
You both know why you're here. What's the point in beating around the bush?
Flirting is a vital part of the cougar-younger guy combination. She probably
didn't get a lot of attention from her ex-husband towards the later years of their
marriage, and she's craving attention now. You showed her attention and that's why
she's interested in you right now. But if you don't show her enough attention, she's
going to lose interest in you fairly quickly.
Compliments go a long when you want to secure the interests of an older woman.
In fact, the same can be said for most women out there. If she has a great body,
tell her. If you like the way she dresses, tell her. It doesn't matter whether it's
your first contact, or you've been chatting and building things up for a while,
paying a lady lots of compliments will always stand you in good stead. You see –
older ladies aren't so difficult to understand after all, are they?
In return from a bit of dedication and attention on your part, you will get a
woman that already knows the ropes in the bedroom. She's already going to know a
lot more than you. She's had a lot more experience than you have because she is
older than you – and chances are she may have had more sexual partners than you
have. Whatever your motivation for fantasising about sex with sexy seniors, when
it happens you are unlikely to be disappointed.
CARL, LONDON, SAYS
I have always been sexually
attracted towards mature women. When I say mature I mean 50+. I'm 25, but somehow
can't seem to climax without fantasising about being with a mature lady. I don't
know if this is a desire borne out of a hidden incest fantasy, but these feeling
seem to becoming ever more intense. Carl, London
As older people say – 'the problem with this generation is they think they invented
sex.' They didn't, obviously.
The more effort you put in with a mature cougar, the more you will get back in
return. So technically, you are in a win-win situation here if you play your cards
What's not to like about that?
Right, you're about contact an older woman for the first time and you're feeling
pretty anxious and fairly nervous. You don't know how she will respond or react
to you approaching her. You're new to this and never done it before. Your desire
to flirt with women that are old enough to be your mum or grandma is not something
that comes up in conversation, and you daren't look at granny-style porn just in
case your partner finds out about it.
Don't worry help is at hand. We'll teach you how a woman thinks and likes to
be touched. You know, because we're women and so we know about such things.
There are a few basics that you should know right from the very beginning. Firstly,
she's not going to be happy with a half-hearted attempt. You are going to need to
put some effort in here or she'll get bored and move onto the next. She's not going
to be impressed if you don't listen and put to work the suggestions she puts forward
either. That's not her making suggestions. That's her telling you how to do it,
so you better do it or else!
GEOFF, MERSEYSIDE, SAYS
Fantastic article. I'm
45 and divorced and back into the dating scene again. I had been looking for women
younger than me, until I met an amazing 67 year old woman through a mutual friend.
We text each other daily. It's weird to say this, but I have a crush on her. She
is classy, gorgeous and full of positive energy. She's on my mind every day.
Geoff, 54, Merseyside
Thirdly, be patient. She might also be a little nervous at first. In fact, she
might even be more nervous than you are right now, so why not tell her you're a
bit nervous? We are sure she'll understand and work to put your mind at ease.
When it comes to getting down and dirty, taboo subjects are probably not the
kind of topics you'll want to bring in too early. It might work with 20-something
girls but with the older ladies, it just gets a little cringe-worthy.
Come across as being sexually experienced or as someone looking to be taught
the ropes by someone much older and more experienced they you are, even if you feel
a little uneasy doing so. Don't jump straight in and send her a pic of your manhood,
she's not likely to be impressed and will almost certainly have seen other guy's
cocks that are even more impressive than yours. You might think it's a good ice-breaker
but trust us, she won't.
When things progress in the real world, a condom is a must have. Older ladies
may be old but they are not stupid and aren't interested in contracting a sexually
transmitted infection because they engaged in unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse.
This means that if you're not prepared, there's every chance you won't get laid.
IAN, LEICESTERSHIRE, SAYS
I searched Google for
'Granny Sex' because I like the thought of having sex with older experienced women.
I would love to watch two mature lesbians lick pussy and suck each other's nipples.
OMG, that has to be the ultimate mature fantasy, well it is for me anyway.
In general, many older women will take care of matters but you should be prepared
just in case. You wouldn't want to lose out by making such a fundamental error would
Remember, when it comes to mature ladies good foreplay is a must. Unlike young
girls, sex with someone old enough to be your granny won't fake it just to make
a man feel good. These women have expectations too so you will find their honest
with you and will tell you when you're not doing it right, so unless you want to
be humiliated every time you have granny sex, you'd better start learning how to
read her body language. If she's arching her back and moaning, you're doing a good
job. If she's lying there, silent as a mouse, you're not doing a very good job.
Simple as that.
Pay attention to her breasts, kiss her neck, and tease her through her underwear.
The more effort you put in, the better your ride will be. It's in your best interests
to start listening up!
IAN, LEICESTER, SAYS
I'm just checking in as
another guy who is much more attracted to older women than younger ones. My wife
in her late 50's is just getting into the range I like, and it's great. I had a
tremendous crush on my wife's mother when she was in her 60's and 70's. So if my
wife progresses like her mum did, I will find her increasingly attractive for the
next 20 years or so. lol Ian, Leicester
If you want to make sure that your hot granny keeps coming back for more of you,
you're going to need to go the extra mile. Seriously – how many boxes of chocolates
do you think she's already eaten her way through after numerous occasions of bad
If you want to impress your GILF and keep her hungry for what YOU have to offer,
you're going to need to learn how to think outside of the box.
Thankfully, we're here to help you so let's crack on shall we?
1 – Be humorous
You'll be amazed at how far a good sense of humour can take
you, so try not to take too much of a serious posture on things. Sexy seniors are
looking for fun and good times. They do not want anything too serious. If you misread
a situation or things start to go a little pear-shaped, laugh about it – try making
a bit of a joke about the situation to lighten thing up. Whatever you do, don't
take things too seriously – everything here is supposed to be casual, commitment-free
Get it right, and all will go well. Even the ugliest guy can get laid, if he's
an interesting person with a great sense of humour. Do not be uninteresting or boring,
if you so much as come across as that, she'll bin you in a heartbeat and move on.
MARTIN, EXETER, SAYS
I'm 30 and can't seem to
shake off my powerful lust for older women. I've had it since I was in my teens
and since I first started becoming sexually active. In the back of my mind growing
up I always knew my sexual lust for older women was a social taboo so I kept it
to myself. Martin, Exeter
2 – Be open
Look, if you're looking for an anal sex session or if you're
into BDSM, just tell her. If you are just testing the waters to see if your older
woman fantasy is all it's cracked up to be, tell her that. She's not going to bite
your head off for being honest. In fact, it'll probably work in your favour. There's
a good chance she's looking for the same thing as you. You are both here after all.
3 – Be interesting
Honestly, we don't want to know how long you've been boasting
to your friends about banging an older woman. That's not attractive. Have some dignity.
We know that there's a good chance that you are going to have a chat about us with
your single friends in the pub, but we don't need to know about it. Keep your mouth
focussed, be an interesting person, and don't say anything that you wouldn't want
someone to say about you. Intrigue and mystery, excitement and adventure will always
score heavily with any woman – what woman wouldn't fall for a 007-type guy, a jet
fighter pilot, an international sportsman or a well groomed jet-setting businessman
with his own yacht – you get the picture. It's as simple as that, but keep things
plausible and believable. It WILL work better when you do.
4 – Be responsive
Do you really think she's going to be happy if you don't
get back to her when she messages you? Whatever she's into, she will not be into
having to wait an hour before you get back to her and she'll certainly not like
the feeling she's being ignore by you. Be responsive to her needs and be willing
to discuss and develop her fantasy scenarios with her. If you want to keep her happy
and increase your chances of moving things forward, you're going to need to respond
positively to her messages, and sometimes that may mean a compromise.
MARK, LONDON, SAYS
I am 27 and I like older women
and grannies because they know what they want, they don't play games and they are
hotter than younger women who I find to be far too demanding. Mark, London
Do things right, and we would go as far as to say that you'll learn new skills
from your relationships here.
5 – Be willing to learn
If you aren't willing to adapt in any way, and prefer
to be stubborn with things only going YOUR way, you're not going to get very far
with the older lady. She's stuck in her ways and if you don't conform, she'll find
someone that will. Young guys looking for NSA fun are ten a penny and lots of them
are looking for mature women to seduce them.
6 – Look the part
You might get away with dressing scruffy with a 20-something
girlfriend, but do you really think an older woman is going to appreciate a scruffy
guy? Women will often associate appearance with hygiene – so if you send her a pic
that shows you as 'a couldn't care less how I look guy' consider yourself dumped.
Look at her pic and if she looks smart, you should look smart too. Obvious? Well
it should be but you might be surprised how many so-called' serious guys fall at
the first hurdle through a lack of thought and dress code. If you look like a tramp
in your pic, she will not be impressed with that at all.
DAVE, BIRMINGHAM, SAYS
I met my older lady via
a unanticipated moment. I had left my lights on in a car park resulting in a flat
battery. She came to pick up her car which was parked beside mine. I then used her
car to jump start my car. We were chatting for ages, and eventually I persuaded
her to go for a drink as a thank you. She was 64, and I was 45. We've been seeing
each other for 3 years now! Dave, 48, Birmingham
7 – Know what you want
If you don't know what you want, all you're going
to do is lead people on. If you're fantasy is for watersports with a woman older
than yourself, then match yourself to mature women who says on her page that she's
into watersports too. If you don't focus on your fantasy and choose a woman who's
into the same kind of sex as you, then chances are it could lead to an embarrassing
situation when things dip a little south, and she realises that what you want is
not what she wants. It's all about knowing what you both want out of your secret
If you follow our simple tips, you too could be having incredible sex with one
of the UK's horniest seniors.
Relationships between sexy seniors and their toyboys have been around for a lot
of years now, but only recently has it become openly accepted as public perception
changes in relation to mature women wanting to accommodate 'backwards' lovers. The
media has lead us to believe that it is perfectly okay for an older guy to be involved
with a younger girl, but when an older woman seeks a younger man, eyebrows tend
to be raised. Speaking as women, it hardly seems fair, does it?
LIAM, BRIGHTON, SAYS
I'm a 20 year old guy who
loves watching granny porn. I would love to fuck a woman in her 60's. It is honestly
a dream of mine to have sex with women who are 60 and older. Liam, Brighton
The fact of the matter is that being sexual with someone old enough to be your
grandma can change your perception of sex because you are likely to learn about
yourself, and about women, both in the bedroom and out of it, and you may both greatly
benefit from your interactions here.
Take the studies that show men being in their sexual peak in their 20's, and
women reaching their sexual peak in their 40's, and you have a perfect partnership
that can only lead to explosive things in the bedroom. Biologically and physically,
it's a great combination. But does it work in practice as well as it does in theory?
As a general rule, despite the common misconception that the older woman will
lure her toyboy in and take advantage of him, the relationship between the older
woman and younger man is only going to thrive for them both. He is going to learn
to leave behind the petty bickering that often happens in a younger relationship.
Twenty-something girls can be very demanding, wanting your attention almost 24/7
or at least what seems like it. And it's often said by men that they feel 20-something
girls set traps for them to fall into and that they are constantly waiting for the
guy to put a foot wrong so they can nail him and make a big deal of it.
ANON, WOLVERHAMPTON, SAYS
I believe in being
honest, I searched for 'grannies looking for sex' and came upon this site. I'm a
28 year old guy who likes older women. The term 'granny' shouldn't be construed
as being offensive or derogatory, I see it as a nicer way of saying mature, older
or senior, but that's just me. Anonymous, Wolverhampton
It can be pathetic the stuff some girls get up to. With the older woman, you
don't have to worry about any of that nonsense.
Many cougars will have been around the block a few times and know what they want
from their secret liaisons. She's the boss in this relationship, and she definitely
wears the trousers. She won't have you dictate to her how she can live her life,
and she won't dictate anything to you right back. The space between you is likely
to flourish and you'll learn why so many men go after older women.
In general, you'll learn a lot more about sex from an older woman, especially
if you open your mind and start to see things from their point of view. She's not
going to be taken for a ride, but she won't want to take you for one either. Keep
it honest, keep it real, and above all else, keep it fun!
There is something a little taboo about a young guy with an older lady, especially
when she's not far off the same age as your mum or grandma.
THOMAS, EAST SUSSEX, SAYS
Since I can remember
I have always felt that I would feel more comfortable in the company of mature women.
In my early adult life at the age of 19, I went on holiday with a mate and his parents.
Whilst away his mum decided to go topless by the pool, due in part to being egged
on to by my mate. She had an amazing body and from that moment on I have wondered
what she would be like in bed. Terrible I know, but there it is. Thomas, East
In fact, the secrecy of sexual engagement here is often what keeps it as naughty
as it is, and when it feels naughty, satisfaction is guaranteed and the experience
You won't want people you know to find out what you're into and up to here. Could
be that you're already in a committed relationship or your work colleagues would
think it's all a bit weird, so you've decided to keep it here.
The trick to keeping your hot UK granny a secret is to keep things simple and
delete any telltale signs from your mobile. Rumours and lies have the potential
to destroy what you have, and when what you have is a stable family situation, you
won't want to give that up. Not at any point soon anyway.
HOT TIP: Have two phones. It's stupidly simple but it's a great idea. If you
don't want to get caught by an awkward text when you are out with your friends,
give her the number of your second phone. If you are planning on getting hot and
exploring your deepest darkest fantasies with a cougar, the secret second phone
is a great way to keep both parts of your life separate.
GILL, READING, SAYS
I found this article while
looking around the site for the first time, and the title caught my eye. I'm a 42
yr old lesbian who always used to go for older women because they were generally
far more experienced, and I loved to learn. As time passed, that older and more
experienced woman became me! Gill, Reading
Don't take your second phone out with you when you don't want to involve your
older lady in your life and you won't get caught. It's as simple as that. Just make
sure it's not on vibrate at home in a desk drawer otherwise someone might hear it,
and that defies the whole point!
OK you're ready, and you finally pluck up the courage to sign up to that free
online dating website that's dedicated to finding hot older women for horny young
guys like you, only to discover that the site is not quite as 'free' as it lead
you to believe, nor are there half as many 'real' female members as they told you
there was either. It's a very disappointing situation, and one that many horny young
guys are faced with on a daily basis. There are just too many dating sites that,
in reality, are actually nothing more than a scams… or are just complete rubbish.
There are a few ways to get around the myriad of UK scam dating websites. First
of all, read reviews of the website you are looking at – but be mindful that scammers
are cunning creatures and can employ sophisticated moves to trick you by posting
false and fake reviews about the sites they control.
ELIZA, LONDON, SAYS
Men reach a sexual peak during
their teens, while women grow confident as they get older and know exactly what
they want and how to get it. What sexually active young man would say no to such
an enticing combination? Age is relative. The word 'granny' no longer refers to
a little white haired old lady in a rocking chair, because that would be wrong.
Eliza, 68, London
Google the name of the website. What comes up in the results? Is it page after
page of endless fluff with no real information? This is an indication that the website
either hasn't been around for very long, or it's not a genuine website.
Also beware of so-called dating website review sites as they are often nothing
more than an affiliate of the very scam sites you need to avoid. Our advice is to
look for reviews which appear to be independent and have been written by someone
that has actually used the service and can comment from the perspective of a genuine
member. Genuine reviews like this are unfortunately few and far between and you
can read into that what you will.
If you are met with page after page of reviews, have a read of the reviews. Do
they seem genuine? Look for things like the odd spelling mistake here and there,
or missed punctuation. Not everyone that writes a review or testimonial for the
site will have perfect spelling, grammar and punctuation skills. If they look too
perfectly written to be true, there's a good chance you're on the right track.
Obviously, if there are only bad reviews, avoid using the website. There's a
reason why so many people are leaving negative reviews… They are not getting the
service they expect.
SHAUN, HULL, SAYS
I'm 43 and have been having
a sexual relationship with a women of 63 for the past four years. I divorced my
ex seven years ago who was a couple of years younger than me but felt the desire
to date older women. It was the best thing I did, learnt so much sexually. The only
problem was making a go of a long term relationship with her as it seemed unacceptable.
You don't need to pay for a good quality granny dating site. There are some decent
freebie sites out there – sites we've researched to get to the truth – and the reality
is shocking. Having written that, we do believe in the saying, you get what you
pay for, so remember that when you sign up for a free site. Profiles could fake,
for example as there is little or no moderation on free sites.
On the other end of the spectrum, if the website is a paid-for subscription based
service, you are less likely to find scam artists. They aren't going to pay for
a membership to fiddle you out of your hard earned cash, are they?
If you want to meet someone in real life for sex and you're thinking of joining
a pay-for-it website, be extremely careful and do your research most thoroughly.
It is not just scamming your hard earned cash; many online dating sites have serious
security issues relating to the security of their members' private personal data.
All online dating sites will almost certainly require you to upload highly personal
information to their server. In contract we don't have any data security issues
because we don't ask for any information and therefore, don't have any data security
issues. When considering joining a free online dating site how your personal information
is used and stored should be the most important thing on your mind. Until and unless
you are 100 percent satisfied that your personal data is secure our advice to you
would be to walk away and never look back. Depending on your personal circumstances
it's a big gamble and probably not worth risking it.
DOMINIC, SURREY, SAYS
Wow! I read this page because
someone tweeted it, and I really enjoyed the article. Despite all the biased opinions
about age difference, I think human sexuality and sexual attraction is far more
elastic and fluid than our society has given it credit for. Some believe that 'only
the young are beautiful' and are entitled to the best sex and being the most lusted
after. But it really isn't true at all. Dominic, Surrey
You are going to need a good looking profile page to ensure that
you stand out. Just imagine how many young guys there are right now looking for
hot grannies and cougars to contact. After all, every young guy has his own 'Mrs.
Make sure that your profile page is honest and conveys who you really are, what
you like and what you're doing here. Make sure that your profile isn't full of the
usual hype and fluff, because it won't do you any favours if it is. We will help
you as much as we are able, but only you can truly describe yourself.
Above all else, remember everyone who sees your profile is here to have some
fun. The whole point of guys being here is to connect with a like-minded woman and
have some NSA fun, then contact another woman and have some more NSA fun… right?
Just dive right on in, you having nothing to lose and rest safe in the knowledge
that you are safe and will never be rejected face to face here.
MIKE, BUCKINGHAMSHIRE, SAYS
My lover turns 70
tomorrow. She has always loved sex. As soon as I walk in the door, she immediately
takes off her clothes and jumps into bed and she still gets wet. Mike, Buckinghamshire
Ladies here are totally focussed on what they want and how to go about getting
it. They won't mince their words because they are eager to 'make it happen'. They
don't like timewasters.
These older women have a special kind of something going on and it has lead to
an increase in interest for older ladies over the past couple of years or so. Mature
women looking for toyboys are no longer as embarrassed as they once were and now
many of them openly admit to preferring a younger man in the bedroom. And what's
wrong with that anyway?
In fact, guys aren't shy at all about coming forward these days about fancying
older ladies. We have seen a steady increase in demand for so-called cougar ladies.
It's not like you can just go to a pub or club and easily pick up a
MILF or a GILF is it now? No, it doesn't work quite like that. Well, actually in
most cases these women are looking for something specific in their men. It's wise
to check out the truth about beautiful older women and what they want from their
JOHN, SALFORD, SAYS
I remember when I was at
Uni wanting to be sexual with one of my lecturers. She gave me lots of help running
up to my finals, but all I was interested in was looking down her blouse. Her breasts
were full and I so wanted to pop them out. I'm wanking myself off now just thinking
about those gorgeous tits. John, Salford
You will find, in the most part, mature women looking for men with enthusiasm.
That means you need to get excited about stuff guys. Be creative, read the profiles
and look for your matches. Seek out those you fancy, say 'hi' and take it from there.
Your enthusiasm should carry through into your messages. Any half-hearted approach
isn't going to do the trick with her here. She wants a younger man, yes, but she
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for someone as horny as she is to keep up. Women reach their sexual peak at a much
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She's going to want a wild and passionate connection when it comes down to it.
It will be the perfect time for the pair of you to express your deepest, darkest
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JIMMY, SOUTH LONDON, SAYS
I'm ashamed to admit
it, but I did Google 'sex with grannies. I wasn't looking for porn. I was looking
for articles and stories that might shed some light on why I feel the way I do about
older women. Jimmy, South London
Whoever you choose will be looking for some chemistry between you. The mature
woman over a young guy is likely to be the boss here, and if you think anything
different you are likely to be mistaken. Be receptive to what she says, she'll tell
you why she's here and what she wants and 'Yes babe' is probably the best thing
you could say back.
Men her own age will probably have dominated her before. It's now time for her
to be the boss and take control of the session. Assuming this is the case, it's
in your best interests to let her take charge and see where things lead – when you
do that, your experience here is likely to be incredible.
So that's the truth about what older women want from their younger sex contacts.
The big question is: Do you believe you're up to it?
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WILL, CENTRAL LONDON, SAYS
For starters I'm 42
and my wife is 58. We've been very happily married for four years. Before getting
married, we dated for eight months. Deciding to start a relationship with her was
both the hardest decision I ever had to make as well as the best decision of my
life. Will, Central London
These women are looking for NSA fun. It really is as simple as that. They wouldn't
be on this website if they weren't. They know what they are getting themselves into
when they join up. They want you to message them, tell them something interesting
about yourself and get into hot sex session leading to a mutually satisfying climax.
If that's not what you are looking for too, you're definitely on the wrong website.
One of the great things about this site is the honesty of the female sex contacts
here – and the fact that you know from the outset exactly what you're getting into
here. Although you probably shouldn't expect to necessarily get on like a house
on fire with every woman here. That would be unlikely and improbably as no one hits
it off with everyone they come into contact with online or on the Net.
That said, you might just get on brilliantly from the off. It could be that she
has a son your age, and you may think that your mum's best friend is the same age
as the woman you are messaging. Either scenario may give you a tremendous rush.
Are you here hoping for marriage and babies? No, we didn't think so. There are a
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GARRY, IPSWICH, SAYS
As a young man, I tried
to fit in and be like everyone else. I wound up getting married at 22 to a girl
my age, because I got her pregnant. Our marriage didn't even last a year. She was
pretty enough, but as you've probably guessed I wasn't into women my age. I never
was and I never will be. That fact was difficult for me to accept and it was difficult
for me to express in public and around my family and friends. Garry, 27, Ipswich
As long as you treat her with respect and recognise her boundaries, you won't
go far wrong. Even if you're not a perfect fit and she makes it CRYSTAL clear, you
can simply swap to another older lady and make your move with her.
By the way, you should always act as she would expect you too. Mature women won't
stand for any immature nonsense. She's not looking to mother you so if there is
any hint of that, you may find that she'll drop you. You should stand up for yourself,
have an opinion and be the man. She might be looking for a younger guy but that
doesn't mean she's looking for a child to discipline. Although you never know; these
older women are into some very KINKY things.
Don't come across bigheaded, rude or arrogant – if you do she'll
peg you as a complete prat. No woman likes that, regardless of her age. Obviously,
a certain amount of self-confidence is a positive asset and is welcomed, but once
you go past that point she will regard you as a self-centred prick and will not
want to have anything more to do with you.
If you've tried to do everything right (taken all our advice) but things went
south, that's fine; don't stress about it you may just have tried too hard. If it's
your first time contacting a mature woman and have been honest with her about that,
you'll find she'll be more than accommodating when it comes to communicating her
likes and dislikes to you.
EDDY, CUMBRIA, SAYS
I'm 31 and my wife is 49.
She's the best thing that ever happened to me and I want to be the best thing that
ever happened to her. As far as our sex life is concerned, it's passionate, frequent,
and fantastic. I really am the happiest guy in the world. Eddy, Cumbria
Of course, above all else, be polite and have some manners. Don't get blind drunk
and make a fool of yourself. We women want to believe that chivalry isn't dead.
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