THE WOMEN HERE ARE LOOKING FOR (cough) FRIENDS!
Tip: 3 things your contact is almost certainly thinking when she receives your message:
1 Who are you?
2 What sort of person are you?
3 Why did you choose me?!
Where were we? Oh yes, why do younger guys fall for older women?
They come with their own bag of mischief!
Actor Jason Momoa, 39, and his wife, actress Lisa Bonet, 51, as well as actor Hugh Jackman, who is 13 years younger than wife, Deborra-Lee Furness.
Then there's French President Emmanuel Macron, 41, and his 65-year-old wife, Brigitte. Macron has said the criticism of his marriage stems from sexism.
But it's not only younger famous men who understand the attraction to mature women.
If you ask any man who's been with an older women if he'd do it again, chances are he would yes yes, definitely, no question.
Oh yeah, babe, the evidence is that once you've "done it" with an older woman, you will definitely look at older women in a different light.
What do younger guys have to say about "getting it on" with an older woman?
I wasn't looking for an older woman and Polly (67) wasn't particularly looking for a younger man. But I
consider our relationship to be special, because there's no pressure on either of us. It's totally commitment free.
Thomas, Birmingham, Midlands
Karen is very special. Not only is she a beautiful MILF, but she has a wonderful sense of humour and is
very giving. The ability to talk about anything with her is refreshing and engaging. In fact, when I first contacted
Karen I didn't know I was attracted to 'older' woman. She offered me space, devotion and herself, which I
couldn't find in anyone else. She is a best friend who reflects back to me what a good person I am, which builds my confidence and self-esteem.
I find that I'm attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. I like the stimulation of a sharp intellect. I think younger
women are sometimes too focused on starting families and that is rarely an issue with older women. I've always had relationships with older women.
They know themselves. They have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. They are not just looking for guys who
will be good fathers and providers. Older women can be more playful. They are more relaxed. It's really a personality thing for me regarding
what is attractive.
I enjoy a confident attitude and older women definitely have the upper hand in that area.
When I meet a woman over 40, she's usually very clear and focused. She knows what she wants in life and it makes being with her so much
easier. I look at a lot of my friends who have girlfriends their age and younger and the problems they have strike me as ridiculous. They
frequently act foolish and immature. I don't have time for that behaviour. That's why I like mature women.
Just the fact that there's so much to learn from an older woman, that they have so many more life experiences to draw upon, is an
adventure to me. It's like a rush.
The experiences in life that they've had make them more grounded and realistic. Emotional stability. Need I say more?
The above is just a selection of the kind of comments we see on an almost daily basis.
Others say there has been nothing but positives in their relationships with older women. Older women are able to see things in younger
men that they often can't see themselves. Also, there appears to be levels of honesty unlike anything experienced, even with a best pal.
The way mature women carry themselves shows they know who they are. It equates to stability. They've already figured out who they are.
Maybe not all the time, but a lot more often than younger women. They are all-around much more attractive to many younger men.
Also, older women are much more experienced. You know she's the kind of person who's going to tell you exactly what you want
to hear and older women are more sure of themselves than their younger counterparts.
Older women are much more well rounded - they know what they feel and why they feel it. It's easier to have a relationship with an
older woman, because she knows how to communicate what she wants. It has a snowball effect all the way around.
When the woman is, say, 10 years older than you it's adventurous for both of you, because chances are it's a new and exciting journey.
Younger women just don't allow guys to grow in the ways older women do.
Negatives of hooking up with an older woman? What negatives?
The advantages for most younger guys of having an older woman can be summed up in two words: intense marathon.
Advantages of having sex with an older woman? Are you kidding?
An older woman is more sure of herself and brings that to the relationship. She knows what she wants and how to communicate that
to her partner. She won't be worring about getting pregnant.
One of the biggest advantages of having an older woman is that they know what they want so there's no guesswork. You may try to
please them and they'll tell you if it isn't working. And that's a turn on some most younger guys.
Absolutely no negatives about sex - it is the best. Phenomenal! Although the sex is important, it's also importnat to consider
her needs and desires. Get it right, and she will take you over the edge and beyond what can be achieved with a younger less
sexually experienced woman. Older wopmen just make things a hell of a lot easier, because they are just in it to have fun.
When you finally take the plunge and get with an older woman it will be like breaking through a major barrier that takes other
people forever to work out. There's a 'click' sexually.
It is so easy and the sex is great with lder women... if you look at a girl in her twenties you might find her attractive, but
her thoughts are on getting commitment from her sex partner. Most men can't really do with that.
Younger women are not formed, they're like a lump of cold clay, very pretty clay, but still unshaped. When you look
at older women, you see a real women. They feel like women. They are solid. Their bodies are solid. Their thoughts have
solidified. A relationship with an older woman can be very rewarding.
I learned how to make love to a woman. She took me by the hand and said, 'Slow down.' I mean, I was 20 and at 20 you're just so
happy to actually be doing it. You never think about how.
With most young women, I'm bored to death. Bored to death.
In a relationship, there is an intellectual component, a grounding component and a physical component. The physical is very important
for a man. The sexual side is a big thing. It makes sense when you think about it. The greatest sex in my life has been with older partners.
Even when it's early in the relationship, it's still much deeper.
Thomas, who was mentioned earlier, expressed his own fulfillment:
Although my initial fear was that I wouldn't be good enough
sexually, my larger fear was that I'd overwhelm her, like call too many times a day or say one too many 'I miss yous.' Instead, our
mutual pleasure went from one high to another.
Thomas, Birmingham, West Midlands
Emma Valasco is a post-graduate sex therapist, writer and
adult blogger on xxxsexcontacts.com
*Cited Sources: metro.co.uk | today.com
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